Why do women always wait for the guy to ask them out?

Question

Make the first move, honey.

Answer 1

i know when it comes to me i'm someone who would per fer the guy to ask me out....only because i wouldn't want for him to say no or something like that.

Answer 2

My guess is that there is this idiotic notion of the man having to make the first move, the man having to pay for the dates, the man having to cater to the woman's every need, opening doors, driving to the dates, making the reservations, whatever, in the pathetic hope of having her return some token of affection. A load of patriarchal bullshyte if you ask me. All it really does is re-enforces the man's position of authority. He bothers to ask, the provides, he makes the decisions, he has the power. I thought we were living in a time of growing equality? What is so wrong about a woman going up to a man and asking him out? Do men feel threatened by it? Are women afraid of rejection? Get over it people.

Answer 3

I've bin wondering myself. It's just difficult 4 them to make the first move. A million dollar question indeed. WHY???

Answer 4

It's the way we were raised. To believe that a man should pay for our dinner's, open the door's for us and wait for them to ask us out. Today....anything goes. Women ask men out, pay for their meals and even open the doors for them.

Answer 5

it is society,hundred years of man domination,it will take time to recover

Answer 6

because it is slutty when a girl does the chasin'.

Answer 7

bcoz its d weakness of d girls

Answer 8

some of us are not to comfy at that

Answer 9

yes please do, i'm a guy and very shy