What do they look for in guys when they just notice them. Is it looks, personality, confidence, etc. When you first see a guy from across the room and start talking to him.
2006-07-31 09:28:39 · 23 answers · asked by surfguy87x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Each girl looks for different things. We all like different men, some like the eyes or the cheeky glance they give you in return .Some like hot bodies, or cute butts (lol) Some are shallow and think appearance is the best, what they don't realise is he may look like a dag a not a looker but may have the most beautiful personality and be the kindest person you will meet. Its your inner self that attracts you to a stranger across the room< the feeling you get that makes your heart skip a beat. Sometimes I thing we have a mechanical mechanism in side telling us.
2006-07-31 09:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by a mother 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think looks are the first thing that attract two people to one another, but to me a good personality is far more important. As I said in another question recently, trust, honesty and respect are three things that make a good relationship last, in my opinion. A guy with a good sense of humor is really good too. For looks though, nice eyes and a cute smile really attract me.
2006-07-31 16:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first I would have to say looks, I mean i am not looking for some male model looking person, but I want him to at least be OK looking. The next thing I would look for would be a guy with a sense of humor. If he has no sense of humor then I won't think about it. And then i would look for the obvious things, sweetness, niceness, not perverted, or an asshole. I also like guys with nice eyes. Have nice looking eyes always gets me =]
2006-07-31 16:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by lost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are the first thing, only because if you're not attracted to someone you're not going to look twice. And I don't mean drop-dead good looks, Clean hair, nails & teeth, a nice smile, clean clothes, realatively in-shape body. The smile is the key!!
2006-07-31 16:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by sashamoosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sense of Humor.. That is the most important thing for me
They also have to make eye contact while talking and have a nice smile
2006-07-31 16:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by dbrady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I would say looks first, personality and then confidence!
2006-07-31 16:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Crazyinlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing i look for is their personality. they have to have a great personality like funny, can make me laugh, and have the some interest (not all) . And then looks their need to be cute.
2006-07-31 16:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me of course i noticed his looks (but i mean i wont like stop talking to him if i think he's ugly) then i'd noticed his personality and who he is the one thing that really gets my attention is how he acts like if he's just like all those other stupid guys who does stupid stuff....lol then i'd join him have fun doing stupid stuff like jumping off roof tops
2006-07-31 16:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of it is subconscious, i.e. pheromones. Personally, I look at they way he carries himself, what his eyes are saying, whether or not he is smiling. How he smells.
2006-07-31 16:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Anthrope 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks. If he is good looking then I will smile and let him know I am checking him out.
2006-07-31 16:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋