A girl is asking whether she should have an abortion?

Question

A girl has just asked the question as to how she can go about having an abortion. Some of the responses to her have been so scary, i.e one lady asked her to imagine the babies cries etc. etc This is not helpful at all!!Others say she will definately regret having the operation as she will never forget or forgive herself. I really worry aboutsome of the advice given out on this site. She may regret having the baby at all!
The girl has asked where she can go for help for having an abortion, she has not asked what do you think about her having one.

Answer 1

Planned Parenthood can be found in the phonebook. Call them up for help.

Answer 2

Abortion is such a hard thing to even think about much less talk
about. It is a painful subject. Adoption can be a decision. It
really just depends on how she would feel about adoption ?
I will tell you, I had to have three. The first time, I didn't know
who the baby's father was, it was between two guys I was
seeing. I was so sick to my stomach, I chose to do it. It is a
sad choice to make. And I asked for God's forgiveness. I know
he has forgiven me. Then I was married to a very abusive
crazy guy, and I had an IUD, but it must have come out, cause
I ended up pregnant twice with his babies. I didn't want to bring
those innocent lives into our "hell", it wouldn't be right. If I had
kept them, I would never had been able to get free of him. So,
that situation, as in rape or incest, is heartbreaking. BUT, there
is a light at the end of the tunnel.....You won't feel guilty 4-ever.
You won't have to suffer because of other peoples opinions.
It's between you and God. There are far worse things that are
going on in this world. You can have your freedom regardless
what you choose. The moral issue is nobodys business.
Pray to make the right choice that you can live with and not be
burdended with. God is with you in your good times and bad.

Answer 3

The girl obviously has a problem if she messes up and expects to obtain an answer here by posting a question like that here.

We have free will, and we have to live with the consequences of our actions.

If the girl chooses to abort then she has to live with the consequences, even if those include guilt and regret, and if she posts that question here she should expect to get good and bad answers.

The moral issue about aborting will certainly pop up, but if she wants information about doing it because she will anyway, then she should enter "abortion clinics in the usa" in her browser search window. Any idiot can do that.

Answer 4

If she's truly serious about this, she should call her OB/GYN or look the number up in the yellow pages or online. What did people in her situation do before Yahoo! Answers? They looked the phone numbers up.

I have to wonder if these questions are real (the abortion questions) or if they're meant only to get a rise out of people.

If she's stupid enough to post a question like that on a pregnancy forum (if it IS a legitimate question) she deserves every answer she gets...good, bad or other.

Answer 5

I understand where you are coming from.
Some of the answers ppl give on this site are cruel.
I know how strong an issue abortion is.
I myself am against it in all ways.
However, I agree that she did come here for help and being cut down does not help.
ppl need to not answer these questions if they cannot show understanding as well.
I myself would suggest adoption, but would never put anyone down.

Answer 6

If a man asked where he could hire a hitman to kill his wife, would you tell him, or would you try to talk him out of it? A woman seeking an abortion is a woman who wants to kill her child. You cannot expect rational, moral people to support this type of behavior. Maybe you just need some more information. Please check out these sites with an open mind, and it will help you better understand where people are coming from:

Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm

Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Answer 7

i had 2. both of them when i was 17. (for all of you out there...it was the same guy, and it was my choice. i new that that was the best way because i wasn't ready to have kids). when i got pregnant at 19, i decided that i couldn't do that again and kept the baby. it was a boy and his name is austin, and he is 5 and my little boy. at that time i was more ready to have a kid then i was at 17 when i hadn't even graduated high school yet (by 2 weeks).i haven't forgotten what i did, but i don't sit and dwell on it either. i understand that i made mistakes, but i have learned from them too.

Answer 8

It depends on the situation really. If she is too young or feels too young, rather then yes.

I don't know where she lives or what costs are, but there are some clinics available where they support you throughout the whole ordeal and give counselling afterwards.

I don't know how far along she is either but if she under 8 weeks she can go for the medicinal procedure.

That's all I can suggest.

Hope this helps

Answer 9

1-888 Not-2-late

Answer 10

i had an abortion when i was 16 and i still regret it im 21 now, i feel so bad because i will never be able to see it or know what it was even, its just something that scars ur life forever

Answer 11

It is in our nature to try and change the world. Especially people who feel strongly about issues.

What would you answer if someone asked you for the closest 8+ story building, bacause they want to commit suicide?