i like my friend how can i go about this situation?

Question

i bump into a friend from high school a few months ago. we chatted and for the past 2 months we have been hanging out more and calling each other more. she still loves her x boyfriend and has to open to anymore because she only wants him. now this same girl had a crazy CRUSH on me. the more i hang out with her i start to like her. this past weekend we spent an entire day together as friends and was asked by her to hang out on sat and sun but i couldnt cuz i have made plans. i scare to make a move on her for the several reasons:
she doesnt give too many hints about liking me but then again i m not good at reading certain messages
maybe she doesnt see as a potential boyfriend
maybe she s not ready
maybe she only wants me as a friend
or maybe either one of us wants to destroy what we have

i def dont want to make her feel uncomfortable and push her away
what can i do??
Please help??????

Answer 1

If you really think she's worth it ask her if she would be your partner for dancing lessons. See if there's chemistry there. When you're hanging out notice if she touches you a lot. When you're away see if she makes an effort to talk to you.

If you still can't tell after that I would move on. It's hard to have friends of the opposite sex you are interested in and they aren't. If you move on and make yourself happy and do things you like you'll meet more girls I promise. There's about 10 billion other ones out there who may be more compatible than her.

Answer 2

You my man is in the "friend zone" she's keeping you as her friend. She is definetely not ready for a boyfriend. You would you if she wants you. Since you are asking here it means she hasnt given out any mac vibes. Hey, it is possible that she will change her feelings for you, but not anytime soon.

Answer 3

hmm i guess truth will do u good. dont need to scare her but ask her nicely saying" listen i dont wanna things to change after i ask u something...its just i will remain ur friend no matter what ..but recently i have had this thoughts coming to my mind..blah blah blal.........." ask her...she should be honest enought to tell u her feelings as to what she feels..or by the way sometimes wid time people tell so u can also wait and play the game if u have time

Answer 4

just maintain the friendship, and look out for those little signs of flirtating.
and, dont get yourself with those maybes. just forget about them.
that will make it easier for you.
my true real advice, do what your heart tells you to do, i know that sounds corny, but if you REALLY like this girl, go for it.
but be cautios of the friendship.
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hope i can help.
good luck.

Answer 5

You should just ask her what she has planned for the future. Ask her where she sees herself in 5 years. Then when she answers, ask her if she sees you with her in that future... and where she sees you in her future.

Good luck and I hope this helps!

Answer 6

i would go about it by asking a question first....
ask her if she thinks theres anything more to your guys' friendship..
ask if she'd ever go out with you..
but dont ask straight out... leave room for a getaway sentence in case you dont like her answer or she comes out and says no.
or you could say sometimes you get the feeling she likes you..is that true?
i'd would just ask question to get to the answer....
but in case of a fear of rejection keep them to simple question where you can always make up something different.
and if you hear something you like ask more or just ask her out.

Answer 7

Keep doing what you are doing. One day go to a club with her and get her drunk or pretend that you are drunk and kiss her. If he acts weird about it then blame it on the alcohol.

Answer 8

ur d guy ask her about dat??????

Answer 9

let him facial you.