My boyfriend (3 1/2 yrs) has purchased a 5 bdrm/ 4 bath home and asked if my family would move in with him. I am not very happy with him but I do love him...do I take him up on the offer because it would suit my needs financially or hold off because I know our relationship will not go further because I never see myself married to him. They would be paying rent and have a seperate house area but I'm not sure if this is the right step because he does NOT have one romantic bone in his body (doesn't even kiss alittle) and I can't see myself living that way for the rest of my life.
2006-07-31 09:12:18 · 6 answers · asked by luvinpeople 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all... This shoudl be a conversation between your and your boyfriend.
Since you brought it up... You could be jumping into something that you're going to regret later. "Moving in" is a very serious commitment over just being roomates. It's hard enough for just two people to adjust into common living, and I don't want to imagine how it's going to be when you bring in your whole family.
I would have a serious sit-down with your boyfriend. Only you two can really answer this question.
2006-07-31 10:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by MojaveDan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You don't really love him, there's no way you can if you say you can't see yourself married to him and there's no sexual chemistry. His not kissing you and all. While it could be a temporary financial fix, you'll only end up moving out later because this relationship is doomed to fall apart.
2006-07-31 09:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 03:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't move in right now if your having those thoughts,tell him you need time to think about it.
2006-07-31 09:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it... It won't work and do you want to be even unhappier? And if you're unhappy,your kids are unhappy
2006-07-31 09:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! how old are you?
2006-07-31 09:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by jemmie_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋