I am dating a lady who has physically slapped me on 7 occasions. Given that I have more hate then love for her. Nevertheless, I can tolerate spending time on her given that she is very very sexual.
Fortunately she possesses drugs and I have collected very much evidence on her illegal habit. I planned to break up with her and turn her in, but I doubt I can find another partner who has as much sexual energy.
Would it be a good idea for me to tell her about the evidence I have against her and to demand that she be nice to me unless she wants to face drug charges?
2006-07-31 09:02:20 · 11 answers · asked by Kozlinaya Golova 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Needless to say if I leave her I will turn her in... But how can I give that up??????
2006-07-31 09:08:58 · update #1
turn that crack whore in...u can get p*ssy anywhere who needs her???
2006-07-31 09:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sir, if this question were asked by a female everyone would advise her , hands down, to get the hell away from an abuser immediately. The thought of a guy getting slapped around has humorous aspects to it, but realistically the best advice is the same for you as it is for a woman in the same situation. Get away from her, far and fast, because the situation isn't likely to improve, and if you hit her back , you're going to face charges. Basically, it's more trouble than it's worth. There's a sexual component that's really your only motivation for hanging in there in the first place...believe me, I understand. But you've got to know there are many other equally passionate women out there that don't have anger management/physical abuse issues. It's just going to be a matter of time before she goes off on you in the midst of a drug-induced rage, and you're going to be hemmed up in some crap that will likely involve police intervention. Gathering evidence with the thought that you could somehow modify her behavior with a veiled threat of exposure is pointless...you're complicit in her drug use because you've sat there with her on more than one occasion ( and we all know why), so the evidenciary value is skewed as your motivations come into question...that's an idea best left alone altogether as it is likely to backfire on you. No, I think your best course of action is cutting your losses and leaving her alone. You can find earth-shattering sex in a number of places...you may even develop a meaningful, emotional connection as well. This is only my opinion, but I hope you'll at least consider it. The situation you're in now is volatile, and overdue for a major eruption. Good luck to you.
2006-07-31 16:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, look letting her know that you have evidence of her little drug issue could make her go nuts. What if she pulls out a gun on you or something?
Most importantly, what if you two are together and the police is after her. Did you know that just because you are with her and she posses drugs you'll be in some deep sh**? Is being thrown in jail for something that you didn't do worth about 15 minutes of pleasure? Weather you turn her in or not (which i think you should do.....) it is best that you leave her....
-May Christ be with you....
2006-07-31 16:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by That's_hottt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right? Do you honestly believe you can blackmail someone into being nicer to you just because you're gettin good booty? Wake up & smell the drugs baby - you are hooked on the sensations you get from her - you've openly admitted you hate her & are plotting her downfall, so why would you want to stay with that just because she gets your rocks off better than anyone else you've had to date? You are as sick as she is, dear.
Get out, get some counseling. Back away from this spider hun.
Good luck getting away in one piece - and I strongly advise you not to tell her that you have evidence against her.
2006-07-31 16:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm...no? Just break up with her, because no amount of sexual moxie is worth being abused. To threaten her with turning her in would be to sink to her leval, and you don't want that. Rather, break up with her now, find someone who really cares about you, and do turn her in. It might seem like a mean thing to do, especially if you ever cared about her, but for her sake and for the sake of everyone she touches with her drug habit it's really best.
2006-07-31 16:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't snitch on her...that's rude. Either deal with her the way she is all around or move on. I can't believe you would even think about turning her in....you better watch out if you do that b/c if she don't whoop your a$$, I'm sure someone she knows will
2006-07-31 16:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by jso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be so easy to give it up once she knocks the Sh#t out of you and sends you to the hospital. Move on, this situation is not cute at all.
2006-07-31 16:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Boss' n it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way you will lose her if you tell her you will turn her in she will leave she needs drugs to be sain anyway right get someone better
2006-07-31 16:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone then forget out her drugs just get out of the relationship
2006-07-31 16:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her on Springer!
2006-07-31 16:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋