anyone have any tips on asking a girl out?

Answer 1

The trick is to be "smooth." This means avoiding awkwardness and bluntness. Get to know her a little bit, two short conversations (only 2 minutes long) will do.

Conversation 1:
1) Break the ice with the first conversation with something light and fun.
Examples:
-look for something unusual about her clothing or accessories and say you like it
-or ask her a question about some activity she is engaged in at the time you walk up to her ("what's that form you're filling out?"). Just try to keep it light and fun.
2) introduce yourself and ask her name.
This first conversation is key. You should be able to tell from this conversation if she is interested. If she seems friendly, flirtatious, and shows interest - she is definitely interested. If she is just polite and friendly - it may still be worth a shot. If she completely ignores you - time to move on.

Conversation 2:
1) A few days later (take your time; don't look desperate), stop by again.
2) make some light banter.
3) if she seems even more interested than last time, this is a very good sign, you have piqued her interest. It may even seem like she is eager at this point.
4) after the banter, say (warmly, confidently, and friendly) "lets go out for a drink, let me get your number."
DO NOT ask her if she would like to go out; instead, you should make a decisive suggestion
DO NOT say specifically where you will be going (unless you are taking her to your luxury yacht)
DO NOT say when you will be going out.

FIRST PHONE CALL:
A few days later, call her up (never on a weekend). Tuesday is a very good day to call. Tell her you are going to take her out on X day (the best is two days from the day you are calling). Suggest a general time frame - "sometime roughly around 8" or "after dinner". Then say "I'll talk to you later." Don't say when you will be calling again. She already knows you two are going out and when; so keep a little mystery by not saying exactly when you will call.
IMPORTANT: If she does not answer this first call, then DO NOT leave a message. Just try calling again two days later.
IMPORTANT: The following conversation might happen during this first call, so be prepared:
You: "Let's go out for a drink Thursday"
Her: "I can't. I have X important thing I have to do"
Here's what you do if she says this:
1) play it cool. DONT suggest another day. She may immediately suggest another day. If she doesn't, that's okay. Just switch the topic of the conversation. After about a minute of small talk about an unrelated topic, say "so I'll see you later." If she really wants to go out with you, at that point she will suggest another day to go out (if she hasn't by then already).
2) When she suggests another day, agree to that day. Hopefully she will suggest another weekday. If she suggests the weekend, TRY TO AVOID FRIDAY NIGHT OR ANY TIME SATURDAY. If you say you are available for these times, you may look desperate. If she does suggests the weekend, tell her you will take her out for a friday happy hour or Sunday evening (Friday happy hour is the better choice). If, after you change the subject and say goodbye she still does not suggest another day, then she is not interested.

SECOND PHONE CALL:
On the day of the date, call a few hours before the time you will be going out. Call her after work or after school. Tell her what time you will meet her. If you call her the day of the date she might not pick up the phone. This is normal and it is okay to leave a short confident message. "hey this is X, looking forward to tonight. give me a call." Click. She will call you back, and she might even call you back a few hours later, but this is not a bad sign. When she calls you back, answer the phone and tell her what time you will be meeting her.

Keep her guessing by not telling her exactly what you will be doing on the date until the day of the date.

NEVER ask her what she would like to do. As a general rule, it is best to ask her as few questions as possible regarding what to do during the date. She will appreciate a decisive man. Also, if your date does not have to make decisions, she will usually feel more relaxed.

Other tips:
*Dont try to buy her affection with fancy dinners or gifts. This reeks of desperation.
*Keep the date short - only 90 minutes. Even if you are having an incredible time.
*Keep her talking during the date. Ask questions about her and get her to talk about herself.

Answer 2

The best way to ask a girl out:
1- understand her mood, if she is happy or sad
2- walk upto her and start a quick conversation (give an indirect idea that you like her)
3- Make sure she is not seeing anyone else
4- When you see she is feeling comfortable with you, ask in a very gentle way ( would you like to go out with me someday for LUNCH, (donot ask her for a dinner) that way you ll be safe
5- Make sure you dont make any sort of wrong moves
6- Dont spend too much, it will ruin everything
7- while on the date try not to touch her at all (especially her private parts)
8- Donot talk about sex at all ( remember you have to make an impression)
9- Donot act like an underdog, tell her your ambitions in life
10- Last but least, when you take her out, bring a small bouquet of flowers and a plain SQUARE or ROUND choclate box. (dont be silly enough to take heart shaped choclate boxes)

Answer 3

First of all, don't be cheesy or crude. No pick up lines!!! Girls in general find them offensive and unoriginal. Be polite and charming. Pay attention, if she doesn't seem interested, take "no" for an answer.

Is this a general question or are you asking for about a specific girl? If you've already set your sights on a specific girl that you know, do something creative and cute. You could send a cookie bouquet (6 cookies with one word on each one saying "Will you go out with me?)

Answer 4

Here is a fine tip, Get a friends sister about the same age and practice what you might say and she will definatley let you know how it sounds. Good luck.

Answer 5

Ask her out if you really like her don't just ask her because you want to get down her pants. If you want to do that go to a party and find a hoochie mama.

Good Luck and be Honest and Sincere

Answer 6

well what a girl really likes is a sweet romantic guy and not some0ne who act like something hes not when hes around her the best way to ask a girl out is go up to her and ask her and show no fear do it with confidence. girls also like guys who would do anything to go out with her and that is the way you do it..

Answer 7

Simple. Just walk up to her. Tell her why you like her, and then ask her on a date. She will be so flattered she will have to say yes.

PS
If you dont know why you like her, get to be her friend first. I know that sucks in the beginning, but it helps in the end.

Answer 8

1. Open your mouth and move your lips to form words,
2. Put words together to form sentences,
3. String a bunch of sentences together to form a conversation.

It's just that easy!

Answer 9

well take it from a girl which i am. i like it when a guys just doesnt act al nervous and just talks to me and the i9n the middl of the conversation he says would u like to hang out after school

Answer 10

just walk up there casually start up a conversation and then ask her after you finish or you run out of things to say