I think that on the night of their bachelor/ette parties, they need to have one same sex experience, to make sure they are not gay before they get married. I've heard so many times from straight people "Oh, you just haven't met the right woman yet." Well, maybe straight guys just haven't met the right man, or straight women haven't met the right woman.
2006-07-31 08:49:07 · 10 answers · asked by Harry_Cox 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
People who think bachelor(ette) parties are bad/boring are LAME. At any rate, my fiancee and I are opting to have a jack and jill. With the friends we have, it'll probably be more fun, though I will probably go out a night or two before for my one last night with the girls.
Also, being gay is not a choice. Science says so, and last time I checked, science trumped your idiotic Bible, and your misconceptions. My fiancee is is no way gay, and yes, I have been with a woman, but I prefer men and love him dearly.
2006-07-31 09:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand why people automaticaly think that a bachachler (ette) party autimaticaly means your gonna cheat! All the ones I have ever been to we just go out have fun and maybe have a fun party. Ive never been to one where the bride cheated. Im having one and wouldnt even have a desire to even look at the men there. The parties are what you make them. If you cheat then you want to cheat it doesnt have anything to do with having the party themselves. Its only disrespectful IF YOU MAKE it disrespectful!!
2006-07-31 18:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by dmestle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to screw up a relationship 101: Have sex with someone else after you've promised to be true and faithful to another.
Honestly, that's asking for disaster. Everyone I know who is gay knew it WELL before they hit adulthood. They wouldn't have needed to "try out" being gay before committing to a person of the opposite sex, they just didn't find them as attractive and never took a relationship with the opposite sex that far.
2006-07-31 16:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone feels they have the need to "experiment" or are questioning their sexuality, that exploration needs to be done before they commit to marrying someone. Not the week before the wedding at a party.
I'm all for personal exploration if ones feels it is necessary for themselves, but waiting until right before your marriage is a) massive procrastination and b) proof that you are clearly not ready to make a lifetime commitment to your partner.
2006-07-31 17:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Colly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that you shouldn't have any sexual experience the night before your wedding... you shouldn't start a marriage with drama, secrets, and betrayal. If a person needs to experience something w/ the same sex, opposite sex, whatever, they need to do all that before they accept someone's proposal for marriage. You need to know yourself and be comfortable with who you are before you ever get engaged in the first place.
2006-07-31 16:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by mr and mrs gee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bachelor and bachelorette parties are very disrespectful. Neither my husband or I had them and neither of us wanted them. I think if you are willing to make a huge commitment to someone, you better know your sexual orientation - and if you are unsure, then you shouldn't get married at all.
2006-07-31 16:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the sillies thing I have ever heard of. I would never have done such a stupid thing. I love my husband very much and we are happy with our crazy life. We are not gay and never will be. That is a decision you decide.
2006-07-31 16:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no bad idea, sounds like that might screw some people up for life. People are not naturally gay, why try to push it if they have already decided they found the one they love.
2006-07-31 16:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever works for you but i agree with the other answer about bachellorette parties being disrespectful, it's just an excuse to mess around, and if you want to mess around then why get married.
2006-07-31 17:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by b_racer_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not start this new custom.
2006-08-02 04:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋