This is not a wealthy person so he's not a financial "catch", pretty normal guy, a mans man if you will, he seems nice but I'm embarassed to be with him because he's pretty rough lookin'. Let's face it he's not attractive but when he hugs me I feel like I'm in a perfect world.
2006-07-31 08:48:27 · 28 answers · asked by Pardonthepun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first of all, if he makes you feel that GOOD, then stay with him...not that many men can make you feel that amazing and truly mean it. Second, looks aren't everything and that is the reason why he treats you so Good...is because he knows many women wouldn't even give him a second look and here you are with him...trust me he cherishes you. Third, there are things you can do to clear up acne...so why don't you get him some clearasil or proactiv? They say it clears up acne fast...so if you try that it may solve part of you worries. The teeth factor can only be fixed by a dentist...so..I dunno about that. But acne is also easily cleared up by drinking more water...and eating a bit more healthier. So, if he makes you feel so good, why don't you help him look good so you can be an amazing couple?
Finally, looks aren't everything, so don't be embarrassed to be seen around him and be happy that you have a great guy who loves you for you...and so you should love him for him. Trust me, even if people wonder "what does she see in him" you will know what it is and why you are with him and that is all that matters.
2006-07-31 08:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U were pretty convinced b4 u lit-on whatever it is between u, and were not bothered at 1st , why now? U never kno' what u got till u loose it, i'm a guy, and i'l advice same way i will 2 my sis. Physics and feelings, which is more important 2 u? if u kno' what u want then u dont have a problem, hey have u ever come accross this b4 "MAKEOVER", if u have'nt then there's such thing as that, just so u kno'. hey check this out, u don't have any competition as far as i imagine the looks u described, don't u think that's a plus atleast u dont have 2 go through d' hassles of sharing his 3t, it's all 4 u. Incase u dont want him anymore, my kid sis wants his #, can u b' kind enough 2 spare it? just jokin', anyways very simple, change the physics, and enjoy d' feelings. G'luck.
2006-07-31 09:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by AUSTINCOKER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you’re looking for accurate acne information, best to see a dermatologist. Some people believe doctors are predisposed to take the easy way to deal with acne… prescription drugs. But, with many, this simplistic answer may not be the appropriate course of action. Some feel that such prescription drugs just treat the symposium and not the underlying cause. But, a local dermatologist is still your best starting point.
For me personally, I discovered a great informational acne treatment site. Not only is there good information/articles but I got their audio e-book and following it’s advice can now say that my acne is a thing of the past! Keep in mind, were all different and there are various types of acne, so what works for some may not be totally effective for all.
Bottom line, hang in there, you will get past this! Sincere best wishes and good luck.
Oh, by the way the site that helped me is:
http://www.acne-treatment-medicine-1.info
2006-07-31 12:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gonna answer this from the heart. I want to let you know that a physical appearance can be fixed and acne will eventually go away but your feelings if strong enough never will. If you don't take advantage of this opportunity now you may regret it for a long time. The only thing that matters is that he treats you right.
2006-07-31 09:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK here's your problem i had a really sweet guy Friend and he was a nerd i was embarrassed to be seen with him too he really liked me and asked me out bu t i said no because i was worried about what other people thought and that doesn't matter its whats on the inside not what is on the outside and also u need to confront him and tell him about what u feel sop that there isn't any secrets between u...
2006-07-31 08:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by baiinsanity ™ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way he is is what makes you melt and makes you wnat to
be with him. Acne can be cleared with treatment and you can
give him a makeover if you really think it is neccesary.
But what you love about him most is not the surface,
it's the inside. The surface can be changed, but not what's within.
So, if you think he is really that awesome and you like him, then
the skin shouldn't bother you that much.
Again, the skin can always be treated.
2006-07-31 08:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow. See if the feelings progress. Give the guy an honest shot. He may be the best dang thing that happened to you. Oh, and who cares what people think. Strut around with him like you two are freaking rockstars. Focus on what's important.
That's my opinion.
Peace!
2006-07-31 08:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by lasksy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your being shallow. Would you rather be with a beautiful man who treats you like crap. Consider yourself lucky. Do you read some of these questions on here about people and how unhappy they are with their relationships? Be glad you have someone who treats you good. Stop being so silly. Looks are not everything. By the way, if I were him, and I read this, I would dump you in a heartbeat. you never talk crap about someone you like/love.
2006-07-31 08:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not so much about the physical or the physical scars which are temporary at best with age, but it's all about how you feel when you are with that person.
Give him a chance. Zits disappear soon enough and so will all the other stuff on his face.
2006-07-31 08:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he makes you melt and treats you like the princess you are you deserve that . i dated a guy the same way everyone even family would say you can do better than that and i let them push me .into breaking up with him and i regret it because he treated me like a princess.when its all said and done colors fade a great person and friend. thats the important stuff
2006-07-31 09:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋