2006-07-31 08:41:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me. My stuff is too good for just any punk. I have high standards and so what. My God tells me not to and so I will obey, then he will reward me with the man of my dreams. ....for the Bible tells me so.
2006-07-31 08:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Ideally it is a good idea to wait, but in reality there are pros & cons to waiting.
I waited until I married [at 22] & it was a mistake for me. If I had not waited I may have not felt the need to marry the first person that came along. He was very inconsiderate even though he knew it was my first time & to put it bluntly, once he knew he was going to get sex there was no foreplay. If you are not going to wait, make sure that it is with someone that really does care for you. Do not fall for some line. If they care for you, they will respect your decision to wait if that is what you choose to do.
I am not advocating premarital sex, but knowing what I know now, I probably would not have waited [until marriage] either.
2006-08-01 15:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Selkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is only a myth. Although lost souls have sex with anyone and then later regret it. This is the Golden King Rule: Don't have sex with anyone unless, you know they can help nuture a baby or is not of any sort of destruction. Look ahead and think about the JUST IN CASES! And sense most people are because they are lost, then that only weeds out a few partners that I have had my entire life!!!
2006-07-31 15:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by The King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do! haha.. but i don't look down on anyone who doesn't think the same.. everyone has their own choice! i just think it's worth it to wait for someone u trust w/ your WHOLE heart, to take care of all aspects of ur life; ur mind, body and soul. that way, no matter what u do or what they do, u Trust them to take care of u. that is when, i think, u should "give it up" so to speak. that doesn't always mean marriage; some people feel they have that and have sex before their married. i just think it's much easier to get hurt when people give it up before they are fully sure; in fact they usually do it to Try and make that person feel loved, when in fact they are completely Unsure.
2006-07-31 15:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do!! I am waiting until my wedding night. I just think it would be more enjoyable to be with someone that it's actually going to be meaningful to instead of just another person on the list.
2006-07-31 15:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by boardtroll7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. I am now married, but when I first got married, I wished I'd been a virgin. That way it'd have been extra special and we would probably appreciate each other more sexually.
2006-07-31 15:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Africangemstone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup
2006-07-31 16:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe...coz this act changes our life entirely....if v do it b4 our marriage n any wrong thing happens then only we have to suffer...not boys...thats y i think so.....
2006-07-31 15:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i did but now i have an 6 month daughter so u should wait until your wedding nite
2006-07-31 16:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by cowanelmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. you have to have commitment beofre you can have intercourse that's the way it's supposed to be but in today's society everything has to be fast... isn't it a shame?
2006-07-31 15:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by coach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋