i met this girl online that lives in coorado but i live in michigan we really felt a connection and we kinda fell in love wat should i do
2006-07-31 08:37:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
step one would be: get over it
2006-07-31 08:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any chance of you going there, or her coming to where you are?
If so, pursue it and make it happen.
If not, move on.
PS- I firmly beleive you cannot fall in love online.
When you really start liking someone you've met online, you know only a small slice of who that person really is. When you think about them, you fill in all the unknown 'blanks' with the 'best-possible' answer...naturally, these best-possible answers are rarely an accurate reflection.
How about reserving the "L" word for someone you truly know, in person, and offline...? Love is a big deal, and you need to treat it with some respect.
If you were to meet and spend some time getting to really know this girl, you might really fall in love with her...but until you really know her (and until she really knows you), you're just friends. Treat her with the respect you would a good friend, and maybe the friendship will grow.
Easy on the 'love' though...that stuff is too potent to be given away to someone you don't know and haven't met.
2006-07-31 15:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her!! Or she come to you....plan a vist with each other.
I met my husband online whom lived in Australia... I'm in the US..talk about a loooong distance relationship. Been there, done that..know all about it hon. And we've been married 7 years. Don't let these other boneheads on here talk you out of it..if your feeling it, then go for it!!! Most people are just afraid to take make the initial meeting..
It works alot better than meeting up with some flake in a bar!
2006-07-31 15:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really in love with each-other and are old enough and mature enough, you should pursue it. But the way you write, as well as your situation, and the fact that you are asking strangers for advice on such an important matter, makes me think that you are way too young to even be in a serious relationship with someone in your own home town.
Also, be very careful. People you meet on-line are not always who they say they are. There are a lot of freaks on-line that will take advantage of you and even hurt you.
2006-07-31 15:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are, but if you're 18 or over, one of you might to consider relocating...I would recommend meeting in person first. Maybe just a weekend trip. Talk things over with her and make sure she feels the same way (if you haven't already). Sometimes that puts things in a whole new prospective! People aren't always what they seem...so be careful. Best of luck to you!
2006-07-31 15:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the age, if you are old enough go and take a vacation there and meet her, this meeting could change your life. As well with females, guy's too have to be careful meeting ladies from the Internet, take a friend with you on vacation. If you are under age then just keep in touch and maybe one day you will meet her. Good luck.
2006-07-31 15:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my advice would be to continue to write her, talk to her online, and over the phone, and when you get enough money, or courage, go to colorado and visit her, and if you still have the connection, take it from there and fly with it. Good Luck!
2006-07-31 15:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rawka'D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your money and keep it to on-line. Get off the computer, go out and find yourself a living breathing girl nearby.
2006-07-31 15:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch and sooner or later you will meet up with each other if it is meant to be and by the sounds of it It is meant to be so keep chatting and make money and fly out and see her or fly her to see you it will work out if it is meant to be It is what it is
2006-07-31 15:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by fordsrock_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think the healthiest way t go about this is to remain friendly with this woman, but try and find someone that you can emotionally AND phyically relate to....
but if ur ever visiting there, you could visit or something???
2006-07-31 15:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. I can assure you that you can meet someone close that you can connect to. Long distance relationships ONLY make for "safe sex" --- between you two only.
2006-07-31 15:39:24 · answer #11 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋