should i tell my mom in law that shes helping her daughter too much and she'll never be responsible that way ??? or should i just stay quiet. cus everytime my sis in law needs $$ she comes to mom and mom should cus the daughter is working and so is her man i think they're taking advantage of my mom in law, should i stay out of it?? if not how can i tell her ??
they always say they dont have money but i think its an excuse so we can feel sorry for them. they just bought a freaking iguana instead of diapers
she's 19 and has a 18 mo old kid. they dont live with mom.
2006-07-31 08:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by sourgirl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
My sister in law is always asking mom for help, when i know very well that she's just using her mom for money, car and free babysitting service. food, etc and her boyfriend and her always claim they dont have any money, but they go out and buy stuff they dont need.
2006-07-31 08:42:20 · update #1
I would put my opinion in. Then leave it alone. For now, I would
recommend telling ur mom to " ask them to let her see their
financial situation". It is obvious they don't know how to BUDGET
their money. Your mom should sit down with them and go over
their bills, expenses, etc. Show them how they can budget.
That way....your mom can see what theyr'e doing pretty much.
If they refuse to let her "help" them....tell mom to refuse to give
them any money ever again. Tell her to stick to it. And they hope-
fully will be more responsible.
2006-07-31 09:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u rewrite ur Q so people can understand it I might b able 2 give u a suggestion, but I only understood half of what u wrote. Sorry...
2006-07-31 15:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could get her to watch Dr. Phill's shows about free-loaders and enabling them.
2006-07-31 15:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lord_of_Armenia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her find out the hard way.
2006-07-31 15:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing i would en
2006-07-31 15:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋