God brings everyone into your life for a reason and answers prayers. I prayed for someone to love me and I love them and have a beautiful home. I got ten times better than what I prayed fr and still let my depression ruin it, this person doesn't want anything to do with me. It has been over a year and I still think about what I could have had. I am in therapy and it does't help. I need to know that eventhough God gave me this wonderful blessing and I ruined it that he will still give me another chance at love. This guy was so great, family values, a true gentlemen, l was never happier. Has anyone got advice besides the therapy and anti depressants? I don't want to live with regret every day about something that was so wonderful. I can't seem to move on. I read the bible, I pray, I am kind to people, but since this happened I stopped exercising, I love to run everyday, my hair has fallen out from stress, I don't recognize myself. A year ago I was vibrant, healthy, slim, HELP
2006-07-31 08:32:56 · 6 answers · asked by sammerdude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, of coarse God will give you another chance! you are being to hard on yourself! you messed up, we are humans we all mess up. don't stop doing things just because of one guy. i understand you really liked this person but that doesn't mean you have to punish yourself for something you did a year ago. there will be other guys, and other mistakes you will regret but you should never be angry with yourself.start exercising and continue reading the bible and praying. God answered your prayers once and he will again.
don't worry as much. and live your live like it was a year ago.
I wish you the best of luck!
2006-07-31 08:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God does bring people in our lives for a reason . And some times things dont go the way we think they should . But you have to keep faith . 3 years ago i lost the love of my like and all i could was blame my self .I knew i screwed it up i was possitve that it was my falt . All my friends could do was watch me slip into depression and drink my self half to death. The whole time trying everything i could to get her back . Everytime i saw her get together with someone i would pray for death . I couldnt handle it anymore i was ready to die , i knew my life was over this lasted 2 years . In the last year i started listening to my friend and looking back at the relationship in a whole . I realized that i didnt do anything ,I gave her everything she could have wanted and did everything she asked of me in the end it was her falt. 3 years later i have a great life and a chance with a girl that is perfect for me . Please just have faith god will bring you your perfect person you just have to have faith and trust me it will happen when you least expect and it will stop hurting trust me i just came from the same place it gets better it may take a while but it will if you need to talk my email is spadejayfrazier@yahoo.com just hit me up and ill help anyway i can
2006-07-31 15:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it this way, I prayed for someone for 18 years, it lasted a long 2 months in an abusive (from her side) relationship, 4 years 2 months and 6 days later, there still has never been ANYONE at all in my life at all! So I had come to the conclusion that I was just plain stupid for having blind faith, or I am just forsaken by God himself. Anyway if you want love, go out and find it, anyone that tells you to sit and do nothing, is an idiot because I listened to that bull*** for more than 4 damn years, and it didn't work.
Try the line that worked for me, "Lets stop praying for someone to save us, and start saving ourselves".
2006-07-31 15:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you something that I tell myself everyday, have faith. Be positive, he will come back. First you have to take care of yourself. Don't get depressed over your situation. There's always a light at the end of the tunnel. My boyfriend of 4 years left me for a 42 year old lady and I know in my heart that I'm the one for him. I pray everyday that he returns to me. You just can't give up. I believe that God doesn't just show you happiness and take it again. I think he lets you see it so you can work to keep it. Remember that your health comes first and the relationship second. You need to be strong so you can have the strength to fight for what is yours. Good luck and I hope everything comes out o.k.
2006-07-31 16:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly no, I think I missed my chance for happiness 13 years ago. You got 12 more years to catch up to me.
More likely is that you have a mild form of depression. Get on some meds for it and maybe you'll get better and find that special someone.
2006-07-31 15:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell the person that you messed up with how you really feel about them and she what he say about you. if he say that he wants to get back with you then you have your second chance
2006-07-31 15:39:18 · answer #6 · answered by terinah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋