I'm involved long distance with a guy I met end of April.He's from US, I live in Europe.We are really good in bed.My last question on Yahoo was about his distant behavior.He is coming to visit me in 3 weeks. I'm just wondering would guys travel from US to Europe just to have good sex? He's in his late 20's, as am I, so it's not like either of us have a fortune gathered by now; travelling back and forth to Europe first of all is expensive, and secondy, just for sex seems bit far fetched to me. So why do you think he's coming to see me, even though he hasn't made any contact with me in the past 5-6 days?
2006-07-31 08:24:07 · 3 answers · asked by Dreamie Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To "Trishul G". I'm not at all thinking out of my panties. I just briefed you on the situation related to the question. I certainly like him and would definitely want him to show me more signs of affection than that he's attracted to me. I was starting to fall for him (for who he showed me he is, not for his looks/anything else), but he stopped making contact lately, and that really caught me off guard. I mean I've been hurt by men before, showing me they really cared about me, when in fact they just wanted to have fun. The essence of my question is: is he having just fun with me or is he really into me, not making contact because sth came up (that I cannot, of course, be aware of, since he's not telling me)?
2006-07-31 09:54:43 · update #1
Well may be the guy really likes you and he want to see you. But if he did then why would he not contact you in 5 day. It is hard to say what is on his mind, man will do many thing for sex, believe me. I would say take things slowly. Don't come to uncertain conclusions. Let him come over here and see what happens. Usually long distance relationships fail. And many times one ends up hurt. Keep your feet on the ground and give love a chance.
2006-07-31 08:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by El Luigy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he just wanted sex, he can get it anywhere.
He is obviously looking for something more. Can you guess what? Stop thinking out of your panties for a change.
So what if he hasn't called in the last week? He is coming to see you from across the pond isn't he?
Lust is sex, love is only partially so. Try to see above his belt and then decide if you like what you see.
2006-07-31 08:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Trishul G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. I knew a girl who dated a guy she met online. He flew in from Lebanon, popped her cherry, and left, never to be seen from again.
Maybe it's love. Maybe he left a kilo of coke in your suitcase and wants it back, who knows.
2006-07-31 08:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Wyld Stallyns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋