i was in love with this girl who started sleeping around with someone else even after saying she loved me and agreed to marry me. Now after 2 months she is back in touch and says she is sorry and wants to give another shot with me, but i dont trust her at all now, though i still love her. Pls help me out of this situation
2006-07-31 08:23:21 · 14 answers · asked by Shivi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh you are a lovely person with a brain in his head. Even though your heart wants to be with this cheater your head says no. Stick with what your head is telling you and wait it out. Someone else will come along (although you probably don't think so at the moment), and you will wonder what you saw in her in the first place.
Try to get out more with friends and meet new girls. Some never cheat on their men.
2006-07-31 08:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can still be in real deep love, but just can't live with the person, especially if you don't trust her, your gonna have a hard t9ime letting her go to the grocery store, if she syas she going out with friends I mean you gonna think of a lot of stuff maybe even lookin at her phone bill. I think you should just remember those times you had a long time ago and move on there will be someone wlse in your life time that you will love and that will love you and you'll trust them
2006-07-31 15:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by !!yentruoc!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say if you do not trust someone the relationship will never work out. As much as you love someone sometimes love is not enough. It would be the same for someone who is in an abusive relationship, even though you love the person who is hitting you, you can not stay and continue to be hit.
2006-07-31 15:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
M8, get a grip of yourself. she cheated on you once and now wants back with you, probably the other guy dumped her, maybe she cheated on him as well. You cant have a relationship if you dont have trust, and if she cheated on you once she will probably do it again, and anytime you had a disagreement, you would always bring it up. its over man, find someone better, who deserves what you have to give them
2006-08-04 07:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust, you do not have a loving relationship.
All relationships must have love, trust and respect. You may may love this woman but does she feel the same?
2006-07-31 15:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust her you will proboly never trust her again its hard getting over people but over time you will tell her you care about but she hurt you so bad you can not forgive her take your time and find someone else I am sure you will
2006-07-31 15:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by richard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU might still love her ,but your right you will never thrust her ,you sound like a nice guy wait till the right girl comes ,she is out there waiting for you ,
2006-07-31 16:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude seriouslly man, think about this for a few minutes bro do you still love her or do you just miss her deeply once a cheater always a cheater if you ask me but thats something you really have to think about dude.
2006-07-31 15:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mikey bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight with her, force her to fight back. use excuses to annoy her. see her ugly side. you will start hating her.
whenever she comes up to you to say sorry, tell her off, curse her, foul-mouth her. act like a deranged psycho, if you know how to. cry and laugh together. she will stop using you or playing with your emotions.
2006-07-31 15:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kirati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never get over the hurt unless you stop all contact and push down your feelings for her until they die. i pray for you it works before it wrecks all your future relationships
2006-07-31 16:08:16 · answer #10 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋