I am pregnant now and I e-mailed the daddy but he denies he even knows me!
His name is Pedro and his e-mail is pyrox90@yahoo.com!
He acts like I am a joke but I am not!
What should I do?
2006-07-31 08:22:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Call a lawyer, arrange for paternity test. If he's the father, the paternity test will prove it and the lawyer will advise you on how to get him to pay child support, or whatever you're after from him.
2006-07-31 08:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Meredia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Can you have the baby or is it not even an issue? If you can't you have to get rid of it. ... and now the father isn't there .... you seriously have to think about it, to keep the baby or not.
The ":daddy" he won't answer because if he would, he would be in big ****! And it was a one night stand ... ah honey ... why didn't you use protection?? This is really bad.
He doesn't answer, that's a sign that he doesn't want to have any part in this, which means you are unfortunately on your own ..
You just have to decide if you can keep the baby or not...
About Pedro, you can get a lawyer and prove through a test that he is the farther and you can get some money out of it, like child support
Just get help so you don't have to decide on your own ... and go through this on your own...
Contact me if you want me to help you any further, ok?
Good Luck, Shiry
2006-07-31 15:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Shiry Madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go and get an abortion of course. forget pedro, move forward and stop living in the past. the mistake is done, go correct it and move on with your life. don't believe the nonsense of these religious folks who do not have to give up their time and money(their lives) to raise your kid. and especially don't live in some dream world that pedro cares....he doesn't. Get the abortion, use protection next time, and go spend your time doing something that you either like or love that will give you a life where you can responsibly bring a child into the world in the future in a planned manner with a partner who wants the same. put your shoulders back, look up, and go be proud that you have the strength to do it.
2006-07-31 15:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by a.j. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haley, you need a lot better advice than you are going to get here. You didn't provide some important details like your age, home situation, and religious beliefs. I'm sure you know your options range from aborting to keeping the child and raising him yourself. One option is a private adoption. There are many desperate couples out there that could help you with medical expenses before adoption and who you could interview beforehand to guarantee that your child is going to a good home. The rules in each state vary, but if you look up "Adoption Services" in the yellow pages, you will be able to find someone to help you. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-31 15:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to decide what you want to do with your pregnancy. Should you choose to continue with this pregnancy, you will need to obtain prenatal care as soon as possible. Should you decide to do something else, may I suggest you consult a women's resource center or obtain pregnancy crisis counseling.
Second, forgive yourself and the baby. It may be difficult for you to forgive yourself for putting yourself in this situation, but you have to do this for yourself and the baby. We all make mistakes; smart people learn from them.
There will always be time to obtain support from the father after the baby is born, either he can do it voluntarily or with the help of the state in which you live. Focus on staying healthy.
May I suggest that you don't give this Pedro fellow another thought -- real men would want to live up to their responsibilities, and not deny them.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
2006-07-31 15:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by flladygator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make decisions...hopefully smarter than getting pregnant from a one night stand. Either abort the baby...have it and put it up for adoption...or have it and keep it...if oyu keep it...you are going to want to know where this man lives and insist on a dna test to prove he's the Dad to get child support
2006-07-31 15:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give birth to the child, go on Maury or some show like that, and drag the no good father out and have a paternity test. And use protection next time!
2006-07-31 15:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. you're pregnant. are you planning on keeping the baby? if you are, you'll need to wait until it's born but have a paternity test done and at least get the money to help take care of the kid that he made. go to your local dhs office for help on how to go about it, they are usually helpful with this sort of thing. then, girl, be more responsible and stop the one nighters or use protection. condoms, the pill or both....they aren't 100% but at least you can say that you used something.
2006-07-31 16:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by srevels2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide if you want to be a mother or not. It's a big responsibility. That baby is #1 right now, not you or him. You need to decide if you want it or not. And if you do, then realize that baby is #1 in your life, NO ONE ELSE! And if your not ready for this, then you need to have an abortion. The sooner you decide the better. And don't worry sweetie, everything happens for a reason!!
2006-07-31 16:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by Caffiene Junkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry, and pray, oh yeah DON'T HAVE ANY MORE ONE NIGHT STANDS!
How did you get his e-mail on a one night stand? You should have gotten his number and address!
You should tell him that you will see him in court when you hit him up for Child support!
Good Luck
2006-07-31 15:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by Violet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋