is there a such man?

Question

i want a man that is thoughtful and not a controll freak i want some one that wont lie to me i want some one that will keep me warm in the middle of a cold night some one that works but still makes time for me some one that will go on a walk and talk i want some one that i can love

do u think i am selfish

i no there is now to bad he lives in japan

Answer 1

That would be me!
I'd have your supper ready at night.
I'd put all my stuff and yours away all the time.
I'd give you the remote control.
I'd give you control of my paycheck.
I'd rub your feet when they were sore.
I'd make you hot tea when your tummy ached.
I'd stay up with you when you couldn't sleep.
I'd stand with you during trying times.
I'd take you to all your favorite places.
I'd endure your friends and family no matter how annoying and everyone would think I love them.
I'd always put you and your needs first.

The only problem is that I've learned that most women really do not want that. They prefer the abusing type.

Answer 2

The answer to that question is a resounding YES. It may take you awhile to find him, but believe me, those kind of guys DO exist. That is not too much to ask. Anyone that truly loves you would be that way. If that is what you really desire from a man, then do not settle for a guy that gives you any less. He will show up one day.....probably unexpectedly when you aren't looking for him. It seems that the dream person is always found when you are not looking and when you are not expecting it. The trick is to keep your eyes open at all times so that he doesn't slip by without you realizing it. It's a dream worth having and a dream that can actually come true. Keep your eyes and heart open. Good luck sweetie and I hope it happens soon for you, but don't be discouraged if it takes awhile....it WILL happen.

Answer 3

Okay, we exist.

Two things though...

First, most people want things that are really not in alignment with what they truly want.

Second, once someone (like you describe) shows up in your life, you will like it for awhile. But then the person becomes predictable and boring. You will soon find you want something different.

The fact is good relationships are hard to find and harder to keep.

I am as you describe. I can relate to your frustrations. Don't give up.

Answer 4

Yes, But I Already Have Him. Good Luck Finding Another One.

Answer 5

Well thats all fine and dandy.but what do you bring to the table. What will you do for me to make me want to do for you....is there such a woman?

Answer 6

You know what? ...some men and women are shallow!!...but to find that person, he or she will have to be comfortable with to actually express them selves...but, again if their too comfotable then they can also be a$$-holes....they show their true side...just smile and live ur life to the fulliest...that one special person will come along and trip over you or maybe just catch you...when ur down...later =D

Answer 7

Yes, we're out there. But it seems that few - if any - women want us to be that way, right out of the box. They tend to prefer the self-absorbed or abusive types, hoping that they can "change" them, accordingly. Needless to say, we're as frustrated as you are.

Answer 8

Well keep in mind that real men's don't like this girlie stuff maybe once in a while once a year.
So just be flexible cause not all dudes like this stuff.

Answer 9

That describes me to a T, but Im having the same trouble you are, well not exactly, your trying to find a guy and IM trying to find a girl lol

Answer 10

Keep looking.
Alot of times they say they like those things, and will do them at first.
But, after a month or 2....not so much. It slacks off gradually.