this gurl i like she moved 2 weeks ago. and all i do is think of her. is this normal, or am i depressed. help
2006-07-31 08:13:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is normal
eventually you will get over her and move on but maybe if you know hwo to talk to her you should tell her that would make it go away faster
2006-07-31 08:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all...you are more than likely NOT depressed, people like to use that word freely when you are feeling down but thats not all to depression.
you liked this girl obviously a lot, and thats okay and its completely okay to think about her all the time especially now that shes gone. You can think about this girl all you want, but in the long run youll be able to see how special this girl was to you and if you are meant to be with her or even see her again - it will happen now or later. but imagine all those girls out there looking for a guy like you. its sad to have someone you care for move away, but if you can kept in contact thats great, if not just know you will be fine once it passes...youll find another girl just as special and it will not substitute for this girl but it will work out for the best.
2006-07-31 15:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by sweetrees420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You sound like a normal human being, we all go through withdrawals when that special someone leaves. some advice, get out meet people, if you're not ready for that just keep yourself busy with things that make you happy, such as running, soccer, painting, whatever it is that makes you sing, just do it and things will become easier to handle. Also, if she was into you as well, why don't you give her a call up and tell her how you feel, it'll relieve some anxiety and probably make her day. best of luck
2006-07-31 15:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Elisey Lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal. Give yourself more time and go out and try to find something fun to do in place of the time you used to spend with her.
Remember that it's actually very true you can get over someone. Those who lose a loved one to death do it, so to do it over a move is also possible.
2006-07-31 15:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by certifiedtarotmaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time that we experience a loss of a person, it is always
difficult and sometimes a little hard to get over, but trust me all
of us have gone or will go through some type of loss. It gets better with time and as you meet new people.
2006-07-31 15:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by EVEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got it bad Ty. You need to get busy with something (or someone) else. In your lifetime, you will have many relationships, some will be great, some will suck. This one went south. Grieve, heal, and move on. It's ok to think about someone, just don't let it get you down.
2006-07-31 15:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jim Alley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are depressed, but it is normal. It will go away with time. How much tim eis completely up to you and the situation in your life.
2006-07-31 15:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by JCS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she have a s/n? im sure her good friends probably have it if she does. it is kind of normal i think... but then again im not a guy, try to find another girl, or try to get a hold of her,
just remember there will be other girls along the road, don;t get to caught up with just one,
good luck
2006-07-31 15:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S NORMAL! Gosh, don't make it out to be something bigger than it is. There are plenty of fish in the sea...
Good Luck Fishing.
Love and Kisses,
Dr. Vickie
2006-07-31 15:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ dr.vickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres this guy that i really like, and he moved to california to go to college at usc, and i feel the same way! my mom says its just depression but that it would be hard to move on
2006-07-31 15:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋