The guy that I started out seeing casually has recently proposed to me. I told him I would think about it. I love him, but I am still also in love with my ex. I always imagined me and my ex being married. Both guys are great with me and my child but I just don't know what to do. Do I accept or wait until my ex gets it together?
2006-07-31 08:07:53 · 6 answers · asked by avandachi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex and I were together for 4 years and lived together for 3. He has some issues with learning to save money. Until he can, I felt we had no future so I cut the relationship. Our goals were not in sync. It has now been 2 years and he is doing better but in the mean time I have met someone else and it got somewhat serious enough for him to propose.
2006-07-31 08:18:24 · update #1
Where is your ex now that you are waiting for him to "get his act together"? Honestly I say do not marry either one. The guy that you are casually seeing is not someone that you are deeply in love with and you should not marry him in fear that you will be alone. Your ex whatever problems he has well...that is why he is your ex. If you are going to take him back for the long haul just make sure that you are not just settling. Marriage is a big commitment and one thta should not be taken lightly especially since there is a child involved. Best of luck.
2006-07-31 08:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by sweetcaraline_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your ex that needs to get it together, its YOU. What the hell do you mean you still love the ex? Why the hell are you with new dude if still in love with the ex? Your being ruthless to the new guy and living a lie. Shame on you and your foolish ways. You need to be open and honest with yourself and make better decisions ESPECIALLY because you have a young child. Damnit!
2006-07-31 15:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still in love with your ex then clearly the answer is no you should not marry this one. Marriage is not something to be taken lightly, you don't want to get marry because "it may work out."
2006-07-31 15:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by Texas cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him? Where do you see yourself in 10 years? You have a child, you say, what is there oppinion in all this, if they are old enough to voice it to you, if they are to young which are they more comfortable with. Follow your heart in this decision.
2006-07-31 15:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to decide who you love and want to be with. Then go from there.
2006-07-31 15:17:25 · answer #5 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
view both of the guyz banking accounts and the one with the bigger balance should win your hand
2006-07-31 16:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋