embarrassing.....?

Question

what if i am embarrassed because my friend told my crush that i like him and the whole church and i don`t want to go any more to the youth group.what should i do?

Answer 1

Go anyway. It shows pride in yourself and that you don't care what other people think.

You're friend probably thought she was doing you a favor. Maybe your crush might notice you more. It might turn out to be a good thing in the long run.

But if it really bothers you, switch youth groups; there has to be more than one.

Good Luck.
Love and Kisses,
Dr. Vickie

Answer 2

There is nothing to be embarrassed about. Still go to your youth groups. Who knows? He might like you too and just hearing what your friend has told him, probably made his day.

Answer 3

haha.. u just have to suck it up knowing that your crush might start likeing you :), and you go to a church youth group wich is very understanding. ok ok maybe u might get made fun of, but thats just the least of your worries. soon this whole madder will blow right by like it never happened.

gl

Answer 4

ok, first of all, i know this an embarrasing thing. Because we're all scared of rejection. but u know what?? there's nothing to be embarrassed about (i can say this Now that i'm older haha). think of it this way; hey, u thought this guy was great enough for u to like! so it should be flattering for him. of course, we always think about the WORST right??

if he 1) is a jerk to you...hey, HE IS NOT WORTH IT. why even Bother w/ him? just hold ur head up high, and Know that he is missing out, cuz u are a good person. there's nothing wrong w/ you. he doesn't have to like u back the same way, but he doesn't have to be a jerk about it. if he is mature, he will handle it respectably. same for u, try to be mature; just cuz u like someone doesn't mean he has to like u back, and vice versa.

2) he is not mean to u, but kinda ignores u/stays away from you.. he might not like u back the same way. but it's ok, he just doesn't want u to get the wrong idea! at least he's not being mean to ur face or making fun or teasing u in a negative way right?

3) he is nice to u, friendly to u still...he may or may not like u still, but definitely is not a jerk. in fact, just feel it out, see if he "flirts" w/ you, and it may mean he's interested...

4) he tries to talk to u, and get to know u.. it probably means he likes you!!! yay!

i wouldn't want a guy who doesn't know what to do w/ himself if a girl likes him anyways! so, keep ur head up, be a person who is attractive, positive and happy cuz U think well of urself, not cuz of what others say or think about u. that way, u will know what u deserve, and who deserves u. hopefully this guy is nice about it, regardless of if he returns feelings or not. and if u act nonchalant about it EVEN IF he is rude and obnoxious, it'll show everyone that u are pretty cool, and deserve way better than him. don't be afraid of ur emotions! go w/ it, and be positive w/ ur attitude.

Answer 5

Don't be embarrass, be prepare and say thank you to your friend.... maybe now your crush will have the courage to talk to you, who knows?

Answer 6

Just go to the youth group, and have fun.
All this is part of life, get used to it.

Answer 7

simple go then when you see him go up 2 him when no one is around and tell sorry that your friend told him that it was not her place then walk away let him either Chase you or leave you alone but its no big deal maybe he likes you 2

Answer 8

well it happens to everyone
not in the same way but in some way.

yes it gets embarrassing. but to hide from your fears is the worse thing to do.
just face your fears and you might be surprised.

but you never know he might like.

Answer 9

omgsh I was having a problem close to exept my said that she liked this guy and the person she thought she was talking about me just stop caring if u don't act bugged by then it will blow over

Answer 10

You shouldn't be embarrassed he would of found out sooner or later.