I know this is a serious question and there are some jerks here that get their jollies out of been smart....never mind. Anyhow, have you spoken to a councilor about this? Is this a private family matter that you just don't want to come out in the open in your part of town? I know here, we have abuse hot lines. Check your phone book.
2006-07-31 07:57:02
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answered by Mommymonster 7
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Well to be quite honest with you ........I too was very abused as a child, along with my closest sister!! Not sexually, but physically!! And my step-mother, even tried to kill me & my sister, once....She put a butcher knife to my neck, and said if I didn't quit shaking she was going to shove this knife down my throat!! And she then proceded too, take me by the hair, and threw me, across the room, and yelled at me, to go fold the laundry........Then, she "Strangled" my sister, until, my sister fainted, and yelled at me, to get a cup of water,for her!! She then splashed it in her face!! And yelled at her to get up, and for me that cup of water was my sister's life!! I couldn't get that water to my step-mother fast enough!! And my sister blocked it out, and said she'd always thought it was just a "Bad daydream" she'd have when she'd flash back, on that!! We were only 7& 8 years old when she was abusing us, and younger!!! She made us stay in our room all the time, so much, that we feared coming out, that she would beat us,or even kill us!! Our older brother always tried too split them up, because this same Latina, step mom of ours was also molesting my brother, since he was 12, years old!! I know it all sounds too crazy for words, but had this been done today instead of the 60s, she'd be in jail, trust me, on that one, and all of us kids, would have saw to that one !!! My sister & I still have alot of emotional problems stemmed from her abuse and from going to live with her at such young ages.........I was 4, my sister 5...... I have talked to a therapist about my issues, from living in fear, everyday of our time with her........And she basically gave me alot of insight, about my life today, and how I can change things, about myself, for the "Better".......I'm harder on myself than need to be........ And I do everything in my power, to not be anything like that woman, who stoled my childhood !! And I have always been very careful, to be completely the opposite of her........And I have to pat myself on the back, for this.........Its not easy, coming from an abusive childhood, and trying so hard to be around "Confident" people, who haven't a "Fear" in the world, isn't it?? If you want someone too talk to about it, You can email me at: christyhorn @npgcable.com........I'll be a good listener, for you.... And we can emotionally lift one another up, you know....... Good-Luck, to you!!
2006-07-31 08:16:21
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answer #7
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answered by Hmg♥Brd 6
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