help plese!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

so i broke up wit my bf and now he wants to get bak together wit me but he broke up wit me cause he thinks im not pretty,but i am.he is so stupid.but his ex gf he thinks is prettier than me but shes like not and she is so mean to him.so would u pick the gurl that u know is pretty and is so nice and sweet or would u pick the ugly one that is so mean and stupid.so witch one would u pick.and look at my pic. do u think im pretty?so should i get back together wit him?

Answer 1

HELL NO! HE MADE THE MISTAKE, LET HIM LIVE WITH IT. AND IF THIS IS YOU IN THE PIC, YOU ARE NOT UGLY AT ALL. HOLLA AT ME.

Answer 2

You've asked a number of questions, I will have a bash at answering them honestly:

Yes, you're pretty. You will turn heads wherever you go, and will have plenty of admirers.

Yes, I would pick the pretty girl with the sweet nature, rather than the mean biatch...any day of the week.

No, don't get back together with him. He only seems interested in looks, and doesn't appreciate your good qualities and all the things you do for him. If you leave him it will be his loss. You deserve better. Don't get stuck in a cr@p relationship because there are plenty of boys out there who do (and certainly will) appreciate you, and will treat you much better than this one.

But how do you find such guys?

Get yourself out and about, and let boys know that you are 'back on the scene.' You're a good looking girl, you will show up on their radar, no doubt about that! Do you have a good group of friends? See if you can go out and about with them, doing stuff, having a good time, and meeting new guys. Nothing is more attractive than a girl who is being positive and enjoying life.

(Remember " when you're full of good cheer, boyfriends come near ")

See also if you can go to some places where you WOULDN'T NORMALLY GO. Then you will meet a wider range of guys. Different personalities, different interests. The wider your range, the better quality of boyfriends you will have.

While you are doing this, also look at your self-esteem. What do you think and feel about yourself? Be honest, is it good or bad? Start thinking good things about yourself. Make a list of your good qualities (make it long!) and remind yourself of these things. Your mind will pick up these new messages after a short while, and you will start behaving differently.

You will be a pretty girl with a lot more confidence and zest for life...and that is a winner in anyone's eyes. x

Answer 3

1) You don't need validation from a relationship. Trust in yourself and believe that you are (or can become) the best you possible.
2) Your ex's opinions aren't important any more...he's your ex!
3) Comparing yourself to anyone else is a recipe for disaster. There will always be people healthier, smarter, more qualified and less neurotic than you.
4) Your ex is always the easiest to date when you're single...and the worst! Take a breather, have some friend time, give yourself a chance to meet someone new.
5) This is important, so listen up; You are NOT your face! You aren't your thighs, your butt or your hair. It's good to feel confident about your body image but it's not who you are: your flaws don't define you!!
Enjoy the personality you've cultivated all these years. All your successes and failures have brought you to this point...be comfortable in your own skin AND in your own head. After all, when you're alone you only have yourself to keep you company. Good luck, and I hope this helps.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

This shouldn't be a difficult decision for you. Any man that doesn't care for you enough to move past looks isn't worth being with. If that was his reasoning for leaving he'll do it again. There will always be someone out there better looking than you, its love that makes a man feel like he can't be with anyone else but you. If it was real he would have stayed and not been disrespectful enough to tell you that you weren't pretty enough to begin with!

There are too many good men out there to be stuck with an immature little boy! = D

Answer 6

Yes, you are pretty, No, you should not get back together with him! Take advice from a woman who's in her 30s, and has a little bit of experience, if you allow him back, your only telling yourself that he's right. As well, your letting him think he's right, and opening a doorway for further attacks against your self-esteem, and self-image. You do not want to allow this to start at all, because if you do, the next thing you know, you'll allow name calling, then possiby yelling, then possibly hitting. Trust me, slam that door shut before it has the chance to open any wider!!!

Answer 7

girl u are really pretty!!! DON'T get back w/ someone who only breaks up/gets together w/ someone who cares about LOOKS. that's not the most important thing anyways. i'm sure u think he's hot and whatever, but who cares?? there are plenty of hot guys...what's most important is finding someone who makes you feel AWESOME. he should make you feel like the most attractive happiest, wonderful, respected girl in the world.. obviously this guy is trying to make u feel like ur not as pretty as someone else..that's stupid. i'm glad that u have self confidence in urself...but u don't need to ask other people to make u feel better u know? if u keep working on ur appearance, ur personality, ur knowledge, ur ability to have good friends and good relationships w/ family, then be confident in urself that u are GREAT! that way, when u meet a guy and he treats u like crap, u'll KNOW that he's not worth it. u need to find someone who knows u are great, and knows he is great (not in a cocky way, just confident and Positive person), that way u won't treat each other like crap. u will work and respect the other person, and know that you both deserve the best from each other. if u get back w/ him, do it cuz u know he'll change and be good for u, but don't do it JUST cuz of looks.

Answer 8

Of course guys tend to pick up pretty girls. Never mind, you are looking pretty in the picture and never bother about others.
My advise, do not go back to this guy again. You would definitely get a better guy who understands you. Forget about the past as you are going to have a wonderful future. Good luck.

Answer 9

Follow your heart. If you ended the relationship in the first place, don't give in and start it back up. You were right to do what you did. If he doesn't think you're pretty, he's not the one for you. You know you're pretty, right? So find a guy that knows it too. You'll be fine. Take care!

Answer 10

You should not even for a second consider taking his loser a** back! How dare he compare you to another female, and worst, his ex GF! He sounds soooooooooooo inmature & ridiculously LAME. Ignore, dont' talk to him, dont' call him, don't accept his calls. you should be glad if he goes w/ the other girl and you don't have to put up w/ the crap! you will find someone better that thinks you are the absolute best of the best.
best of luck girl

~latina~

Answer 11

looks arent everything, but yes they do help. i think the ugly one here isnt you or the ex girlfriend, i think its the bf. he sounds like he's shallow and not worth a second chance. find someone who compliments you inside and out. you and your partner should bring out the best in each other. dont try too hard. be yourself and let the right guy come to you. dont settle for just anyone.