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PLZ ANSWER OT VERY SERIOUSLY...how long do very jealous type guys take to overcome jealous which arises due to seeing their girlfriend doing salsa with another handsome guy??? the guy tells his girlfriend that he will never contact or reply her because of this reason. its been one and a half month that the guy hasnt contacted his girlfriend . the girl kept mesging from 14th june to 10 july in order to clear his misunderstanding that the other guy was just a dance partner...but he didnt believe, the girl loves him and wishes that he calls or mesgs her to end up the misunderstanding . HOW LONG DO SUCH MISUNDERSTANDINGS TAKE TO CLEAR UP IN SUCH A GUY'S MIND??? THEY BOTH KNOW THAT THEY CANT GET MARRIED...BUT BEFORE THE MISUNDERSTANDING, THE GUY WASNT WILLING TO BREAK UP WITH HER. NOW WILL HE CONTACT HER?? HOW LONG WILL HE TAKE AS HE SHOWS HIS ANGER TO THE GIRL WHEN EVER THEY COME ACROSS BY GIVING AN ANNOYED EXPRESSION... WILL HE CONTACT HER??? HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE HIM TO CONTACT HER???

2006-07-31 07:35:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

Clearly, he thinks that you cheated on him and doesn't plan to talk to you again. If you didn't cheat on him, I suggest you arrange a meeting. Pick a date and time when you know he will be available. Then purchase a card and write the following:

"I know you are hurt and I'm very sorry. I want to fix this so we can be together. But, we can't fix it if we don't talk."

Include the date/time of the meeting and then hand it to or send it to him.

If he shows up, then you can't work on it. If he doesn't show up, you can move on.

2006-07-31 07:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3 0

This guy is very controlling. He is even controlling this girl even now in her emotions. The reason for him to be so ugly jealous is because he is probably cheating on her. Does he ask her about her cheating or accuse her of cheating? That is her first sign of a cheater. And now he has just taken off upon seeing her dance with another guy?? How very suspisious to me.
I dont believe he will ever get over it. It will always be there and he will always bring it up during a fight. He will use it to make her feel badly. This man is very immature and needs a few more life leasons to realize how immature this jealously thing really is. I would suggest for her to get on anti depressants and see a therapist for a while to help her get over him. And take any legal action to become seperated from him permanently.

good luck.

2006-07-31 14:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0 0

Ok when you say the guy I don't know who your talking about but some idiots never get over it. So here is what you do don't call him if you have been calling him and if you haven't been calling him then call him. In other words change your patterns yes that's right change them. Nothing makes a guy wonder more than when a girl changes her patterns and when a guy is jealous he stays in control of a girl when he does that, take the control away from him and shake things up a bit I mean after all you figure he's not calling you now what do you have to loose!

2006-07-31 14:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok, u need to get over this guy. don't get hung up over someone who CHOOSES to be away from you!! that is not the way to communicate any type of argument, no matter how stupid or complex. he should talk to u about it, and try to work thru it. if he doesn't want to, let him go... if you love him, and he's willing to treat you so badly, what kind of boyfriend/husband will he be?? pretty crappy. obviously ur love is "not good enough" for him to overcome his jealousy. he's acting immature and irresponsible, especially when u really truly care for him. u should wait and find someone who APPRECIATES how dedicated and commited you are!!! you are a special person, and are not worth treating that way. if u feel that you are 100% committed and have apologized for whatever you have done, whether ur wrong or right, there's nothing more u can do. just make sure u find someone who treats you nicely, and can get thru any situation w/ you *Together*, not someone who will leave you at the drop of a hat. that's not a stable relationship.

2006-07-31 14:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0 0

He probably won't. In the mind of a jealous guy, there is no "misunderstanding to clear up". What he saw was answer enough for all the suspicions his jealousy created.

I know I probably wouldn't contact my girlfriend if she was dancing with some other guy.

2006-07-31 14:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by FM?FU! 3 · 0 0

uh, has this girl ever heard of emotional abuse and control? this is ridiculous. who wants a man that isn't hardly around when his baby-feelings are all hurt up? it's immature and undependable. who cares how longs misunderstandings take to clear up in a guy's mind such as this. these types of men shouldn't be dating anyone, clearly. i don't think i can be more blunt than saying that this is typical of women who submit themselves to abusive and damaging partners, and that all there is for the future is a bank of complaints for their friends and family. give everyone a break and dump the man.

if she's tried to explain and he's being pigheaded about it, he's hurting and punishing her. doesn't mean he's a piece of trash, but it does mean he's not boyfriend material.

2006-07-31 14:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0 0

Dear, If he is reacting this way and wont listen then this isnt a good relationship to work with. Jealousy is something you never really want to fool with. Now, if you cant go out and dance with a guy, (if it truly was innocent) then he is along the lines of control freak and you dont want to deal with a guy that is a control freak. It is another form of abuse which no one should deal with.
He may contact you, but then again he may not. He may intend to never deal with you again. You have made your attempt to clarify the situation. You have done your best. Now, the rest lies on him. If he never comes around to his senses, then you are better off and he is SOL.
My advice to you is to let him go. Go out and have fun, and get over the guy and find someone new that isnt going to overreact and not listen to you.

2006-07-31 14:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I don't think the guy will contact her if she keeps trying to contact him. I know it's hard to leave the one you love alone, but you have to do it. If he feels the same for you, he'll come back and return your calls. But, if he's so jealous, he's not worth it. Those type of guys are jerks. You have to put your foot down, too!

That's why this person is crying, because she's letting him control her. Don't do that!

2006-07-31 14:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by razorblade 1 · 0 0

the girl got lucky
an overjealous person will create many heart aches and problem and may even abuse the girl either verbally or physical the girl got off easily
take a break for yourself
get yourself together and start with someone new
u need someone who will be understanding and supportive
not insecure
every one has insecurities but if they cant communicate then they a have a serious problem

good luck

2006-07-31 14:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

honey if he really loved you then he wouldnt put u through all the crap. if u really want to that much then try calling him agian and if he doesnt answer then go to his house and explain. this wont be easy at all if he doesnt except that its a misunderstanding then just break up with him. if his not going to trust u then whats the point n being n the relationship. i know this is really hard 4 u cause ive had many boy friends that get really jeilious and usually this work and if it doesnt then i say adious

2006-07-31 14:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0 0

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