we are good friends and he was leading me on by telling me that i was pretty and stuff like that and the stupid thing was that i was falling for it even thogh i told myself that i shouldnt have. oh.. and.. he is my ex-boyfriends BEST FRIEND.while he was telling me all this stuff i was falling in love w/ him and i have been wanting to tell him but i dont know how. any ways after we had sex i would call him and he would make excuses about how he was to busy to talk on the phone. he knows my dad so he comes over to my house and he talks to my dad so every time he comes over he smiles at me and i cant help but to smile back. well what he told me was that he wanted to only be friends and nothing more. well i had told him that i couldnt talk to him as friends because i really liked him and it is going to be hard for me to just talk as friends.
2006-07-31 07:31:58 · 18 answers · asked by ...*StePhiE*... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guess you learned your lesson huh? I think you need to tell your dad that his friend was doing his daughter. You need somebody to get you in line before you end up pregnant. Where is your self respect?
G.G.
2006-07-31 07:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There a couple of options here, depending on the type of person you are:
1. You can try to make him jealous.. Not overtly try, but bring a guy to your house when you know he's coming to talk to your dad. When he looks aty you, dont ignore him b/c you're with a new guy, but introduce them, this way he sees you as not being needy.
2. Tell him how he made you feel. But don't whine about it, that will just annoy him. If he still doesnt want to be with you, then it's his loss, and you will definitely find someone else. You're a woman, arent you??
2006-07-31 07:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He took advantage of you. He is not your friend. Over the years, certain people just prove themselves unworthy of your loyalty. It sounds very convenient for him that you are under the impression that he has no idea how you feel. But, it is a game that guys and girls play. One person wants to get laid...the other wants to get together, maybe become a couple. Alot of times, but not always, the one who wants to get laid is the guy, and he will manipulate you by pretending he has no idea that you sit in your bedroom, in your car, at your desk, thinking about him. He knows, Honey..... He knows. And he is not your friend.
2006-07-31 07:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleeping with your ex-man's best friend was a bad idea. but since you already did it i suggest you try and keep it to yourself. telling him that you like him might cause you to lose a good friend. This is a tough decision. I wish you the best of luck with the out come.
2006-07-31 07:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by NyNy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's many times risky to meddle with somebody's love life. attempt to describe to her that he of course isn't involved and that her undesirable interest to him decrease than those situations is merely increasing his loss of interest possibly to the element of sever annoyance. advise that she circulate on, persisting won't endear her in any thank you to him. additionally draw interest to the actuality that stalking is an offence, the guy would take a restraiing order out on her. A effectual dating with absolutely everyone takes advantageous enter from the two factors. possibly you ought to be waiting to distract her with yet another interest, get her to connect a club of interest to her the place she probable ought to fulfill somebody that's drawn to her. If her behaviour persists, she ought to income from a visit to a consellor of a few style.
2016-10-01 07:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by contino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to let him know how you feel. Tell him exactly what you just wrote...that you can't be friends because it's too hard to be friends with someone you are in love with.
2006-07-31 07:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by gymnastxo8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that then and let the chips fall where they may. Better to have said your two cents worth than to have lingering doubts of what might have been.
2006-07-31 07:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by proffalken1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gave it up for that? Wow that sucks. I would say it would be hard to be his friend if you had such strong feelings. I think you need to get away from that situation because it could get even more complicated.
2006-07-31 07:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I am old fasioned!
I can't imagine having sex with somone who you are not attached to, or at least sure there is some "Love" on behalf of BOTH parties before sex.
Why complicate your life?
Don't trust condom use, they are NOT foolproof!
Peace!
2006-07-31 07:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel and if he still just wanna be friends than you will be mess up he probably just wanted to have sex and thats all if you didnt used a condom these are high risks
1. you could contract std's
2. you could get pregnant
3. you could get aids
4. you could give your self a bad rep
2006-07-31 07:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Liv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋