i am going to be a male stripper at a bacherolette party.. what am i suppose to do and what can i expect?

Question

i am not a normally stripper (actually i have never done this before) but i am doing a favor for a friend of mine. I am curious to know what i got myself into. Am i suppose to be having sex with the girls or are do i let them perfrom oral on me? am i suppose to get completely naked? am i not suppose to ejaculate or am i? I dont really know what the boundaries are for doing this since i have never done this before and never seen a male stripper perform (and being a male i hope i never do). i dont want to go to far beyond the standards but i do want them to have a good time as well. can someone let me know what usually happens so i can base my performance on that. I am willing to do whatever it takes but i dont want to offend anyone at the party so some sort of guidelines would be appreciated.

Answer 1

Here's how it goes with a male stripper:
1. You dance. Provacatively. To good dance music.
2. You slowly take off one article of clothing at a time. No socks/shoes, wearing some sort of uniform (cop, firefighter) with a hat/helmet is best. Women like men in uniform.
3. Your g-string does not come off. You leave something to the imagination.
4. If you are comfortable, and the woman is receptive, you can give lapdances. Don't force it on anyone.
5. No sexual favors are performed. Keep it in your pants, don't ejaculate. I have seen some male strippers kiss women's necks. Nothing below her shirt line. And it is sexy.

Just go with the flow. Don't push boundries, see how the women react. And relax, be comfortable. If you're nervous, it won't be half as much fun for you, or the women.

Oh, and if you're good, you can expect lots of clapping, whistling, hooting, and dollar bills!

Answer 2

along with all the above advice (which is all pretty good), consider that these ladies are going to want (in their opinion) a sexy man. I'm assuming you were asked because you're a good looking guy, and hopefully in good shape. Muscles are good, not too many so don't stress, but don't be afraid to hit the gym an extra time or two either. Get a tan, go to the beach or do the tanning bed thing, w/e, but wear your g-string when you tan so there's no funny tan lines, because that's the unsexiest thing ever, well besides a bright red sunburnt man LoL.

Like they said, practice your dance and such, and honestly, if you're still skittish or unsure, don't be afraid to go to a male strip club and (AT THE DOOR) explain that you're a future stripper, or considering starting stripping, and ask if any of the guys would be willing to talk with you about it, or show you a couple little things. If it gets uncomfortable, speak up, but you'll definately learn something if you keep an open mind!

Good luck!

Answer 3

First of all:
1. Don't act sexy - it doesn't work. Sexy is being able to see the real you and your character.
2. Dress up in a good fitting outfit or stereotypical character.
3. Pick some music that compliments the character and has some lyrics you can work with.
4. Try to choreograph some general moves. Make sure you involve her. It's not all about you.
5. Own the space and project confidence. Thats were the entertainment comes from. You will stuff up many times, but if you look like your enjoying yourself they don't become mistakes.
6. Go watch someone else and learn.
7. Most importantly, don't take it too seriously.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Dude, you're going to be a stripper...not a male sl*t. You do not have sex with the women, you do not get completely naked unless you want to...and you never let anyone touch you...nor do you touch them. If you did touch them in any sexual manner, they could say down the road that you touched them improperly and slap you with a lawsuit or something. You can dance and parade around all sexy and stuff...maybe sit on their lap...but do not grope, fondle, or engage in any physical sex stuff.

Answer 6

OMG you do NOT have sex with them or any physical groping of the kind! The most you will do is dance and grind on them or put your c*ck close to their face.

Dance around and have fun with it. Get a costume from an adult novelty store. I recommend practicing your "dance" before the party so you don't look silly! :) Most of all, have fun. Pay most attention to the bride-to-be!

Answer 7

Go with the best answer above. Good advice. Other than that here are few more suggestions. Be fun, not sexy. You are there to entertain, not get laid. I usually put a bit of comedy in my act. After all, when you think about it, a guy strutting around and getting naked for a group of people is kinda wacky. Next pull that g-string all around and give a few peeks but keep the goods in it, unless its been prearranged that you're doing full nude. Probably around 75 percent of the parties I've done are down to a g-string or towel with a quick flash at the end. Full nude is always after the basic strip and strip games and you should be paid more for it. It also means you will need to be at least semi-erect. Be aware you are moving from wacky fun to doing more erotic acts the longer you dance nude. The first 15 minutes nude dancing is a novelty. After that people loose interest unless you up the eroticism. When I'm asked to dance nude I usually ask the level of eroticism they are comfortable with then suggest a time limit, typically 15 minutes, which usually includes discrete masturbation (under a sheet), pillow grinding, or other Chippendale's style eroticism but never ejaculation. Don't do it unless its requested before. In the four years I have been stripping I have only been asked to ejaculate twice. Oh and never do paid sex with clients. That is prostitution.

Answer 8

Better call them to double check first.Nothing worse than doing a strip ---and getting arrested!

Answer 9

having sex? no
perform oral? no
naked? HELL YES
ejaculate? no

when in doubt....ask a cop!!!