He says he loves me but we barly talk and I barly see him. He doesn't call me. Should I break up with him. Why do you think he is doing this. HELP!!!!!
2006-07-31 07:27:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it is much of a relationship if you barely see him or talk. What reason don't you see eachother or call eachother? If there is no time...you would make time to speak with the person you like/love. Doesn't seem like either is there.
Sorry.
2006-07-31 07:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by jessigirl00781 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player and he is saying what he thinks you want to hear. Talk to him about it first and point out that his actions are not reflecting what he is saying. Give him a deadline and then you will know if he really means what he is saying. Tell him by this date if he doesn't start calling you and coming to see you then you will assume that he is not interested and it is over. Then if he continues to avoid you break up with him. The ball is in your court girlfriend and if you allow him to continue treating you this way he will, no matter what any of us tell you.
2006-07-31 14:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a bf like that too and I found out that he just said that to make me feel like I was luved and so I would kiss him or something. And if he doesn't call you at all then maybe he is just saying it too but I don't know for sure. You should just hang out with him again and see what he is acting like that night and things like that and make sure that he is only lookin at you and not other gurls or anything. And if you don't like the way the date went then I would sugest to break up but you deside...
Hope everything works out!!
2006-07-31 14:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is cheating on you because thats the way they act dont go jumpin all over his case now just ask him if he gets mean then yup put if he just puts it off then no or maybe your crowding him or he could be going through on of those guys PMS days ya know the ones im talking about dont sweat it to much though sooner or later you will find out
2006-07-31 14:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i have the same problem my bf always says he loves me but he never shows it so tell him. i told my bf and he understood. its really hard but give him a chance cus he might not know hes doing something wrong. so just try to talk to him about it and if he still is all wierd like then u can dump him and get a guy that will treat u right
best of luck
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2006-07-31 14:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by so_totally_awesome13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him these questions, not us. Perhaps he's not much of a communicator (which can cause issues)...however if you don't talk much and rarely see him, then why would you want to stay together? Talk to him about this and see if you can get more on the same page with speaking and seeing each other. One would assume if he digs you, he'd want to see and talk to you.
Good luck!
2006-07-31 14:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was going through the same thing. i ended up breaking up with him, but if you want to try and stay with him, then have a conversation in person and tell him your concerns. if he loves you as much as he says then the conversation will go well and you might have a better relationship. Good Luck!
2006-07-31 14:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by NyNy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i know how you feel. i was in a relationship like this about 3 months ago and he told me that he liked me alot and the he loved me and then i called him out and he finally told me that he didn't love me and he just wanted to be friends and then we broke up and he wanted me back but i wouldn't take him back. if i were you i would break up with him. sorry but in the end you wont regret it.
2006-07-31 14:32:58 · answer #8 · answered by loved_sweet_angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him you should give him a second chance and sit down and talk to him about what's going on and ask why he's acting so freaky...... and if he's still acting different towards you then you need to end that crappy relationship
2006-07-31 14:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll go and take him to lonely place where u can both talk freely then ask him about it........tell him how does u feel when he doesnt talk u or pays attention.......and if he gets diturbs and angry or somthing break up coz he's using u .........boys do that....alot ....by using i mean just pasing time....that y i never made any bf....coz i hate boyz.........and thats y i think i m happy without them....befor he dumps u u dump him ......let him have the feeling of being dumped.....
2006-07-31 14:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by cute_yusra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋