okay,today..this guy was suppossed to meet me in the beach for a picnic party with my friends.we've talked about this 3 days before and he made sure he'll be coming along..but the jerk..just made me look stupid! i was waiting for him for 6 hours..i was being chased by the wind and rain and still,he didn't showed up! i called his friend to ask where the hell he is but told me he doesn't know either and promised me to forward his new contact #.i've waited but he didin't do it..now,what am i supposed to do? i don't plan to make any revenge..its just that i want him to know how i felt.almost everybody in the beach were talking about me.for they seen me there for hours,well-dressed and was just waiting for something...can you give me some advice here? i just don't wanna stick to my personal options...actually,what he did hurt me and made me look less worthy of a woman.he hasn't got any bad records when it comes to girls..as far from what i know...
2006-07-31 07:20:28 · 25 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he even told me that going to the pic is cool and is looking forward to this day.he even insisted to take his buddy with him.but yeah,they are looking forward to this day to make me look stupid! they should have just told me from the first place thAT they can't come.i think they set me up!!! but i don't know why! is it because im asian and they're british? or what?
2006-07-31 07:39:42 · update #1
What a JERK! What I would do it just go on like nothing happened! I know that Is way hard, but Its for the best. If you act like you are all hung up on this man...then the joke really is on you. But, if you act like its no big deal then people will have nothing to talk about.But, remember when he comes crawling back to you (cause they always do!) you are going to be to good for him. Try the little beach deal on him and see how he likes that! Good luck!
2006-07-31 07:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really waited for six hours you did not just look like a fool you are a fool. Forget him unless he contacts you with a very good reason for not showing up.
2006-07-31 07:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dolly Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the boy needs to be strung up by the balls...but seeing as that's not really practical I'd say try and forget him. t'll be hard at first cos you sound very angry but in time you will get back on track soon.
2006-07-31 07:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, please don't let this dirt bag know you waited SIX HOURS!!!!! do as Kay Kay suggested. never let'em see you sweat. back in the day when i was dating, if they didn't show up 15 minutes before time, 15 minutes after i was changing my clothes, and leaving the house. get yourself a REAL MAN. their out there, but don't carry this hurt around. move on.God has someone better for you.
2006-07-31 09:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by mstuffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him or go to his house and just yell at him aliitle and ask him why the hell he didn't show and then once he gives you the answer than figure out what you are going to do from there..
2006-07-31 07:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who waits fior 6 hours? Move on.
2006-07-31 07:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to meet u outside the movies for a date and have someone he doesnt know show up 4 ya have them say hi im blah then have them grab his balls and twist them as hard as u can then have that person tell him to never mess wit ur friend or youll do it again
2006-07-31 07:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, you have to find a way to contact him. When you do, tell him, truthfully, but not angrily, how it made you feel to be stood up. Explain to him the emotions that came with it, and ask why he did it.
2006-07-31 07:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by callmegoddess618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you please explain to me why you waited for this jerk to show up for 6 hrs? Have you no brain? 20 minutes, 30 tops, and you should have been smart enough to figure out you had been stood up. WAKE UP! He's obviously not worth waiting for, go find someone who values you enough to honor his commitments.
2006-07-31 07:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him maybe something came up and did not have time to call you or maybe's hes a jerk you'll never now just move on fine somebody else to like but you should make him say hes sorry
2006-07-31 07:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyes12181@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋