Any stories..and a question..?

Question

Hello, I am a pure woman, whos been going through a tough time, and im a strong christian. Is there stories with any christian men, who stayed pure their life, and god send them their woman? and if guys are still pure?

and another question if people say,"90% men masturbate, and 10% say they dont, but they lie about it." then how come Christians dont do it, christian pure men? they know its wrong, so how is that true? If eveyrone does it, then their all going to hell. right?

I want good answers, not any bad ones.

thanks.

and also, will God send me my pure, christian man?

Answer 1

100% men masterbate! I know a lot of Christian men that said they masterbate too. I give probs for you being pure but dont be stupid also. Stick your head out of the sand and look around and see reality.

Answer 2

It is true that God will bring you your husband or wife when the time is right.

As far as masturbation goes, Christian men and women do masturbate and some do it to the point you would have to consider them addicted to it.

The sin in masturbation isn't the act of masturbating. The sin comes into play when you are using stimulus (such as pornography, or dreaming of that hot man/woman you seen at the beach or in the magazine.) At that point, you are committing adultery and/or coveting. That is the sin.

There has been some contention and arguments about masturbation (both male and female) throughout religious history (I say religious history, because the Bible forbids adultery and coveting). I have read that if a husband and wife are apart and masturbate thinking of each other only, it is not a sin. A single person does not have that luxury. Of course, I'm sure even that statement is arguable.

Yes, if you wait.....God will send you your pure Christian Man. Patience and prayer........

Answer 3

"Pure Woman" sorry for your tough time. How can I answer this without being rude...hmmmmm...Masturbation is fine and okay there's no scripture that indicates to the contrary (that is any that directly refers to it as being sinful).

I don't know how old you are but you're already hung up about sex and human nature. Men aren't pure because they enjoy life and don't have the sexual hangups that many women have. D/K why this is but science has proven that women can hold out longer than men with respect to sexual desire/activity. Human nature dictates that you'll have many LOVES in your life and in order to bond in that realtionship to it's fullest you've got to make sacrifices...I respectfully submit to you that the sacrifice isn't sinful because if it is than it would make LOVE sinful. In other words stop being so "pure" live, love, and learn.

If you decide to become more human than do it with someone you love and for heaven's (if there is one) sake protect yourself and him...PEACE!

Answer 4

I'm 28 years old and have been married for the last 4 years. My wife is the only one that I've ever been with. I met her in college, and I'm very grateful.

I believe that being with yourself isn't a sin as long as you are with your spouse or thinking of him/her. I can't think of how to do so is bad at all.

Besides, if you're a Christian then you know that even if it iwere a sin, that won't send you to hell, since all of your sinfulness could do so. That's why you need to be forgiven through Jesus Christ dying for you.

Answer 5

The truth is, masturbation is a biological function. No matter how much you try and stop it, it will happen. Like going to the bathroom or breathing.
There are only two kinds of people on the planet, those that masturbate, and those that lie about not masturbating.
Which one are you?

Oh and don't rely on a magic sky-pixie to do your dating for you. Go out and meet someone yourself. Better yet, don't breed. Ever.

Answer 6

Oh my goodness,
I really have to stop getting on this thing when I am at work, but its comments like these that amuse me to much.

First of all, you should be very proud and at peace with yourself that you are pure. Good for you! big props there.

second, why do people with your beliefs think everyone is going to hell?? I am a Christian, but I do know that if everyone who masterbated went to hell there would be like 3 people in heaven.
Live with it honey, people who sin go to Heaven. God FORGIVES ALL IF WE ASK FOR IT.

If you wait, God will send you a Christian man. But just remember, he also told Moses to stop praying and get a move on when we had to help with the Israelites. God helps those who help themselves. So get out there and stop waiting for Mr. Perfect to fall out of the sky. It will happen when you lease expect it.

And please, for my sake, your sake and everyone elses sake, STOP SAYING THAT EVERYONE IS GOING TO HELL IF THEY MASTERBATE!

Only GOD is the judge of that. Please pass on that message to your fellow cronies.

Good luck, God Bless, and I hope you find that someone speical soon.

Answer 7

Here's a little secret... even good "pure" Christian men masterbate. "Pure" Christian women do too. It's a natural thing.

Answer 8

If there is a god, he's the one who made men's prostates healthier if they masturbate. Whoever is feeding you a line about chastity is most likely trying to get you to join a cult. Don't give them any money.

Answer 9

God will not send you anything.
What God will send you is your ultimate death, alone, if you do not get your *** off that chair and start actively looking for one.

P.S:
ALL men masturbate.
If they say they don't, its either they are 5 years old, or they are lying.
And no one is going to hell for masturbating.

Answer 10

How can satisfying a natural desire, that doesn't hurt anyone be wrong?

What is wrong, is holding back that desire so much that it starts to pop out in other areas, i.e. constantly looking at women as sexual objects, etc.

Not only that, ejaculation helps reduce the chance of prostate cancer. If you don't have partner, help yourself out.