Lesbian women all seem to think we want them, I could care less and so can alot of men. I have so many straight freinds that are girls and they're hot but there is no "sexual attraction." We eat together hang out sometimes I sleep over but nothing is going on were "Freinds." I don't see why gay women don't understand that. I've yet to see an attractive gay woman, that meets my standards but thats not the point. Do straight women just have a better understading of Straight males we have values and respect like anyone else mind you ladies ,(These are guys you are freinds with and respect though) not some idiot from a bar.
2006-07-31 07:02:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm straight and have more guy friends then ladies.there are alot of close minded gay ladies that lack insecurity.i have two gay lady friends and each with their couple,very pretty ladies.they feel no need for a close male friend because in their mentality there girl friends could always turn to the man for the wrong reason.i won't concern myself if they issue to much anyway.i say it's all base on one security.my boyfriend has no problem with me having gay or straight friends and we trust each other fine.same thing where they stay at our home while my boyfriend is away on business.
2006-07-31 07:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the question.
Are you saying that a straight woman has never mistaken your innocent conversation for an advance?
Are you saying that because you speak to a lesbian, her automatic reaction is to turn you down even though you aren't hitting on her?
Why can't you just say, "Oh, I didn't mean to make you think I was hitting on you, I'm sorry if it came out that way"?
Maybe you can get one of them to explain to you why it seems as though you are hitting on them if you're not.
I think straight women are likely only as intuitive about a straight guys intentions as a lesbian would be, maybe you are reading into it more than you need to?
Good luck
2006-07-31 07:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think lesbian women are that confused about whether a guy wants them or not. I think they use the "i know you want me, but I'm gay" thing to make sure there isn't any confusion. And alot of guys do push their luck with gay women, convinced (or praying) that all gay women are just dying to have a three-way with them.
If you're going to be friends with someone, sometimes you have to deal with their issues, respecting them and trying to gain some middle ground of understanding.
2006-07-31 07:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Joyce W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can be friends if we would know eachother and then all of the straight guys would try and hook up but ask more than 1 time.
2006-07-31 07:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kelsey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there's kinda that thing that says guys like to see to chicks together. and i have lesbian and bi friends and they know they arn't all that attractive but a lot of guys are more interested because hey i might get to see two chicks go at it. its kinda a stereotypical way of thinking.
2006-07-31 07:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by larissacory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk. i guess our personallitys colide somehow. like me, if u dont like me for who i am leave i dont change for any one. u dont have to have a sexual attraction. if u look at a straight woman and like them . wich means u feel a spark of some sort. then go for it. u dont have to be sexually atracted to the ones u love and care for and the ones u look at to like them. i think u r 100% right on the fact straight female have a great understanding of straight males then gay females. i wish u luck on ur troubles.
2006-07-31 07:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by college_chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. u have me confused. i'm a straight gal. so u are saying that we can just be freinds with straight guys unlike a leasbian who thinks that the guy wants her??
2006-07-31 07:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK I HAVE ALOT OF STRAIGHT FRIENDS AND A FEW GAY FRIENDS AND A BI CUSIN BUT I THINK THAT THEY THINK PPL FIND THEM ATTRACTIVE BECAUSE THEY CANT HAVE THEM BUT IN REALLITY PPL FIND THEM PRETTY MUCH REPULSIVE
2006-07-31 07:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by that one girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? you are kind of all over the place and don't make any sense
2006-07-31 07:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by hotchic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think we need some Lesbians to answer your question !
2006-07-31 07:06:35 · answer #10 · answered by dxb 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋