for whatever reason?
how did you handle it?
2006-07-31 07:00:39 · 38 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, For one if i can't have him then whats the use of wasting time.....
2006-07-31 07:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Toya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with someone who was married. We both loved each other but as unhappy as he was, he would never leave his children. He was a great man but very confused at the same time. To this day I am still taking baby steps to let go of him completely and it has been two years since we've spoken. Its not worth crying over something that you cant have, you need to keep fighting and keep trying for the things that you want. When it comes to love, it is difficult but there are so many great people out there and if you cry over the same person, you are missing a lot of great opportunities.
2006-07-31 07:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by sassy_italia4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i hear ya!! I fell in love with this guy about two years ago, complicated story, however i can not be with him(at least not right now) and i think of him day in and day out. Everything i see or hear reminds me of him. I deal with daily. Im at the end of ther rope also. Just think about what makes you love this character. Is it really love or just a lust? Ask your self why you cant be with him/her, does he/she not love you? where there is a will there is a way, and im being patiently, daily praying that god will help me through my dilemma and get enough courage to go after what i feel completes my heart and soul.
2006-07-31 07:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I am bisexual and I've fallen in love with one of my friends. I can't help it. She is like a poem to me; so incredibly beautiful. She makes me want to cry every day. I love her and I'd do anything for her.
Still, I will never tell her, because she could never reciprocate. And even if she was bisexual, and it was possible, I still would never want to ruin the perfect happiness she has with her boyfriend right now. They are the most beautiful couple I've ever known.
I handle it day by day. It's agony, but I take comfort in my love for both her and her boyfriend. It makes me happy that he makes her happy.
2006-07-31 07:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Christine T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, he's got a gun, a ring on his finger and two little ones at home...and he is ten years older than I am. I loved him for his power, and masculinity. He cheated on his wife with me, and I couldn't be with him for that, and his kids. How did I handle that? Started meeting all of the different hotties and go out with them to cover the emptyness he left in there. It worked for a while, untill Igot burned...be carefull, Love is not something you can replace...
2006-07-31 07:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by You're giving it all away! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's hard, but you have to remember he's not the only guy out there you could love. Make an effort to meet other people (available ones) and move on. With time it gets easier.
2006-07-31 07:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea right about now...I think I could be with him...but idk whether to trust him or not.For all I know he can be a maniac talking on the computer...lol.Which I sense he isnt...but you could never be too sure.Well the only real thing keeping me away from meeting him in person is my age because distance really doesnt matter..or so I think.So yea thats what it is...my age.. :( I handle this by trying to make time go by faster...which is hard to do.
2006-07-31 07:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy© 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I'm going through it right now my girlfriend broke up with me almost a month ago. She doesn't know what she wants and it's hard, everyday I either cry or I play things or what ifs in my head. Being in Limbo is the worst feeling in the world.
2006-07-31 07:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start to fish the other side of city to get away from him since live in a small town.hang out with my guys friends to forget about him.tryed new hang out,new people and just stuff to keep my mind clear from him till the day i met someone i was finally over him.
2006-07-31 07:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by sexydiabla592 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Christina Applegate!! Aghhhhh!!
LOL.
2006-07-31 07:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by Tony T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don't get me wrong i was 12 so i wouldn't call it love exactly but i had the BIGGEST crush on this guy and he was going out with a girl who i absolutely HATED. i went out with another guy i liked but in my heart still liked that other guy. about a year ago the guy dumped his gf and a month later i dumped my boyfriend. four hours after i dumped my boyfriend, the guy asked me out. turns out he had liked me all along and i was mad i had never acted on my feelings. so if i were you, i'd let the man you love know how you're feeling, maybe he feels the same too.
2006-07-31 07:04:38 · answer #11 · answered by *~*CrossCountryStar*~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋