ok i met this guy about 1 month ago...and now he says that he loves me well not love, love idk if u guys understand what i mean.. but, could this be true? we talk on the phone like once a week we text msg very little.we've been out by ourselfs once. and everytime we see each other is the club w friends ..maybe he just wants to hit it huh?? (sorry i sounded trashy) wat do u guys think??
2006-07-31 06:57:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he wants to hit it, that's a given that's all we really want to do, that's why we date in the first place then some of us fall in love ....bu he's probably wanting you to do the chasing. or he has a girl...
2006-07-31 07:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by wcenice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't sure of his feelings, then just wait until you are. Actions speak louder than words, although you need words to complete/confirm some actions.
Yes, it's definitely possible to "love someone, but not be in love with them."
If you've spent so little time with each other, time where either one of you is specifically together because you wanted to see each other (don't care if the event is a crowd or a one-on-one date)...then maybe he's not really into you. He might just like you as a friend, not romantically.
2006-07-31 14:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Joyce W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I've been in a relationship like this before, and we eventually just fell apart. It got to the point where we never even saw each other, and hadn't talked in weeks. Call him, and set up a date between just you two. If he can't find time, then get rid of him. If he can, and you go out and feel no click, then tell him you're sorry, but as much as he loves you, you can't say it back. If you do go out and you do still click with him, then keep setting those dates up.
2006-07-31 14:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by callmegoddess618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
I'm a guy and i've used that saying before. I said i love you so you don't get suspicious that i might be losing interest. He might have been hot about a relationship when he thought he might get laid, but when things start cooling off it's easier to want to try and pick a moment to break away. He tries to keep connected to you in his words but his actions and habbits probably show that he's not liking the relationship any longer.
2006-07-31 14:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by Der Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what it sounds like to me that he is just trying to stay enough in your life to make you think he is really interested but really he isn't. He just wasn't to hit it like you said. If he was really interested in you and wanted more one phone call a week or one or two text messages a week won't cut it. Hell if your in love or like someone don't you want to talk to them like all the time and see them as much as you can???? YES! I know I want to! I can't get enough of my man!
2006-07-31 14:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your thinking is RIGHT ON. Love is not in this category. He sounds like a guy,making notches on his belt. You know..scoring Brownie Point's! Your to young to be harnessed. Expand your own territory. Their are better men out there.
2006-07-31 14:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he wants the sex or he's emotionally confused or needy. No matter what the answer, TIME TO BOUNCE!!!
Too many guys out there to worry about this one.
2006-07-31 14:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by hmmmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my gf don't talk that much either, but I feel that way about her (love but not love lol) he could be telling the truth, but I would remain cautious.
2006-07-31 14:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he is tryin to tell u he likes u, maybe he wants to be more then friends with u..who knows if u like him give him a shot if not let him down by not payin much attention to him n stop emailn him n all its up to u
2006-07-31 14:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he uses the L word like a tissue rag. I just think he says it to get in your pants. I would not trust him.
2006-07-31 14:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by dancin_queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋