My grandpa, 86 ,a widower, who has recently show some abnormal
behavior like tickling his nipples, and showing off his private area occasionally..and seems to be disappointed.
It all happens peridically,this time is worse..after watching
some pornographic videos..
Otherwise, all systems are normal and he is living with us for ages..
So, what treatment options will be most suited for him..
I've already tried diazepam 5mg hs , but I like to know proper treatment alternatives..
I already planned to consult with a psychiatric..but in the meantime it would be really helpful if you help me...
thanks,
Dr.Z
2006-07-31 06:53:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Your grandfather could be going through many things. The elderly often feel like they are ignored or invisible, like they don't even exist. This kind of behavior could be a sign of him acting out in essence, trying to get some attention that he no longer gets simply as an exisiting person. He's probably lonely if he doesn't live with anyone else, and even if he does live with people he might still feel like he's all alone.
If this is the case, I would suggest sitting down with him at LEAST once a day and talking to him. Pay attention to him, talk about things he cares about, get him a gift. Show him you're thinking of him. Get him a hobby, something that he can do to feel productive and useful. Depending on his level of physical capability, it can be anything from drawing, writing, and reading to doing chores, building things, crafting, or even getting a job.
There's also the chance that he's senile... Definitely consult a psychiatrist on this. Try to find one who specializes in elderly psychiatry if you can. Also, look for those who counsel the elderly and see if there's anyone you can reach out to there to get him help.
I wish you the best of luck with your grandfather. I'm glad you care enough to go through these efforts for his sake. Growing old and being old can be a fearful, lonely time. Always let him know you love him.
2006-07-31 07:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Meredia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This behavior may be related to some cognitive decline, but a psychiatrist would be the one to make that assessment. If you cannot wait to meet with a psychiatrist...contact your local community mental health centre and see if there is a geriatric assessment team in your area who can come visit your grandfather and assess him at home. Speak with his physician about the use of diazapam or other treatments availiable at this time...
2006-07-31 14:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by hersh108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's pretty common for older folks who are losing their mental abilities to get this way. if all other systems are normal, then tell him to stop doing this and it is unacceptable. start making bad, disapproving noises when he does it. say "no, no" when he does it try to train him not to do it. or send him to his room when he does it.
2006-07-31 13:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you give him some privacy or hire him a hooker? Even old guys need pleasure.
2006-07-31 13:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋