why girls act as there with you when they really not.?

Question

my girlfriend keeps on wanting me to stay with her, but she turns around and goes with someone else behind my back. why?

Answer 1

she is no good. not all girls are like that. find another one

Answer 2

Most likely she realizes that you are a good companion in all aspects but she feels she has so much life to live and doesn't want to lose a good thing. From my experience I wanted my bf but I also wanted to entertain other men whether it were for conversation or casual dating whatever it was just the rush of self assurance I got out of it! Knowing what I know now I would have cherished being single and embraced a healthy relationship! She really just needs to grow! I am in a steady relationship now faithful for 3 years! You know the guy said to just dump her without letting her know, I had my ex do that to me and it hurt me so bad I couldn't function to dedicate myself to anything not even work, because I couldn't figure out why! DON"T DO THAT, you owe her an explanation have some maturity about it after you do that then you can ignore her that way she can reevaluate herself and not feel as if I did like I was never once someone to him despite all the difficulty you still shared something special!!!!!!!!!!!1

Answer 3

Its an insecurity factor. Some people feel vulnerable when they are alone anywhere they go, which means there is something wrong with them. These people usually feel no need to dish others when their time is up with the person they came from. In this case don't sweat the situation and do your own thing, if she doesn't act right then do your own thing and let her be.

Answer 4

well maybe cause she knows she can do that see sometimes when we care for someone and we don't want to be alone we take what the person dishes out cause we are afraid to be with out someone but if u sit her down and let her know how u feel and she doesn't change her ways then maybe u should look for someone who feels the same as u do stop letting her walk over u that's why she does what she does trust me I've done it before and now he has someone who really cares for him and i miss him see we don't know how good we have something until we lose it

Answer 5

Because you let her.
Dump her, or she will continue to play this game with you.
Never talk to her again. She thinks you'll always be there, that's why she'll hurt you the way she does, and then expect you to still be around when she wants you to be around.
Show her that she can't use you anymore. Find someone who wants you, and only you.

Answer 6

Because she's not a good person. I hate admitting this, but some girls aren't. They are not the best people for realtionships, sp they tend to use guys.

Answer 7

She's probly afraid to lose you but afraid too keep you in fear of getting hurt. Just because you ex hangs out with you doesn't mean that you're getting back together with her.

Answer 8

All girls are like that...until you make them suffer...SO....make sure you do this...(IT's for your own good!!)....Dump her but don’t tell her, TELL the whole world first, tell all of her friends and specially all of your friends, live by your word…so get yourself another girl friend or date multiple girls and tell them that you dumped her because she is no good, don’t say anymore, don’t tell her anything don’t answer her phone calls, and if you do see her or she gets you on the phone tell her it’s over and hang up, don’t listen to her cries or screams simply hang up the phone.

SHE’s NOT WORTH IT…!!

Answer 9

it sounds like she doesnt know what she wants as long as you know what you want dont take the **** from her thre are nicer and more trust worthy girls out there

Answer 10

maybe she got tired of waiting on you