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me and my stepdad were close but yesterday I didnt do some of my chores and he like sold me out!!! my mom did not ask him but he blabed his heart out to her and now I got in major trouble...and part of the mess was his to that I had to clean up

2006-07-31 06:35:37 · 17 answers · asked by ballerinagirl 2 in Family & Relationships Family

17 answers

Do you expect your step-dad to cover for you and keep your secrets, like he is your best friend? If the 2 of you are close, he probably cares about you a great deal, but remember he is your step-dad, not your friend. He cares enough that he wants to see you do well in school, take care of yourself, and Do your chores! He is not your real dad, so its appropriate that he is NOT the main disciplinarian of the house - that is your Mom's job. However, as your mom's husband, he is interested in YOUR welfare and trying to do the right thing for his wife and for YOU. I understand while you think he sold you out, you can even tell him that. If the two of you are close, he will not respond defensively, but explain how he operates. I think its perfectly possible that the two of you can stay close, but its wrong for you to expect that he should cover for you.

2006-07-31 06:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by hersh108 2 · 0 0

Stepchild, you have outlived your time
You represent embarrassment and failure

And the father who must be killed
Is the blight upon your blighted life
And his might is his legal right
To ground you down

Stepchild, with every petty swipe
You just might find you're fighting for your life

And the father who must be killed
Is a stepfather, but nonetheless
The way he chews his food
Rips right through your senses

Stepchild, there's a knife in a drawer in the room downstairs
And you, you know what you must do

So the stepchild ran with a knife to his sleeping frame
And slams it in his arms, his legs, his face, his neck, and says
"There's a law against me now"

And the father who must be killed
With his dying breath he grabs her hand
And he looks into her eyes
He says "I'm sorry" and he dies

Stepchild, I release you
With this broken voice I beseech you

"Why are lives so short?"
The stepchild thought
Half-pointing to the sky

No-one to warn me, no hand to touch me
And no bible-belters to mess with me

Mama, don't miss me
Mama, don't miss me
This death will complete me

But where I go there'll be no-one to meet me
I know there'll be no-one to meet me

But still the stepchild pressed
The knife to her throat
Half-pointing to the sky

Just as motherless birds fly high
Then so shall I
So shall I??

2006-07-31 13:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by PHIG 3 · 0 0

Well what do you expect your mom wears the pants and it's better for you to be in the hot sit than you stepdad.

2006-07-31 13:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0 0

Wow....you have to be like 12, there is not that big of deal w/ it at all. He prolly was having a bad day.....just do your chores it does not matter whose mess it is they do stuff for you that they don't wanna do either.

2006-07-31 13:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by cheerbabe104 3 · 0 0

i totaly kno how u feel my dads gf likes 2 boss me around and when i dont do somethinf she goes blabbing 2 my dad and then i get in truble and im like ur not even my MOM!!! anyways just ignor it and then when he does something bad go and tell ur mom and then she can yell at him lol its rlly funny 2 watch...

2006-07-31 13:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by ... 6 · 0 0

That sounds like any tipical father. They try to sound and act like they're your friend. And then they go and turn your back on you like a jealous friend.

2006-07-31 13:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Grow up and stop complaining. Next time do what you are supposed to do so there is nothing to tell.

2006-07-31 13:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sell that *** ah out tell your mom you found a used condom in his car, or put lipstick on his shirt

2006-07-31 13:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

THE PART OF BEING A PARENT ALSO MEANS THE DISAPLINE, IF HE WAS'NT AT LEAST A SOMEWHAT DECENT DAD.THEN HE WOULD'NT HAVE SAID ANYTHING AT ALL. BE THANKFULL, HE CARES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-31 14:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

You disobeyed, you got consequences, welcome to the real world. Same thing happens at work only you get fired.

2006-07-31 13:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0 0

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