I am a 24 year old mother of a 3 year old. I have been in a relationship with a man for the past 2 years. He is not my child's father but she thinks of him as her dad. We have not been getting along for the past 6 months. I want to get on with my life, find a job and find a new place to live with my child. I guess I want to know should I live in my own place and still try to work things out between us or to just be friends and find someone new? I really don't want to hurt my child or reck the relationship between both her and him!
What should I do? Thanks
2006-07-31 06:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by Tiny mother 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your child is a baby. do what is best for you and your child. ex-es are ex-es for a reason. it didn't work out. move on with your life.
2006-07-31 06:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is sit back and evaluate the situation. What is the problem between the two of you? If it a problem with him cheating on you than it's a no brain-er. What is this guy doing for you? If you a supporting the household and he is there just tapping that ***, then he has to go. You have to put your children first in your. If you two are arguing all the time then they are not living in a good environment. Put his *** out then drop me a line. lol
2006-07-31 06:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jack J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you still love him and he is receptive to you why not ? Ask him for a commitment to marriage. If he agrees it would be nice. If he does not then its time to move on and find someone else who will marry you one day and be a fatherly figure to your child.
As far as the baby goes she will not remember him when she grows up. Kids don't have long memories.
2006-07-31 06:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bachelor boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get your own place, it will probably not work out to still be with him. I dont know the details of why you arent getting along, but maybe before you move you should try to talk to him and work things out, and if thats not successful, its time to move on.
2006-07-31 06:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by ♥love2havefun♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are happy, you're child will not be happy.
You have to decide whether you want this man in your life.
Expect some behaviorial problems from your child as she adapts to the absence of this man in her everyday life.
You both may need to see a counsellor.
2006-07-31 06:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow deja vu. do you comprehend if she became into one hundred% happy along with her new BF? Being in her shoes awhile in the past its no longer honest which you will assume that she did no longer choose something to do with you anymore. this is totally attainable you probably did the nicely suited element in view which you probably did in simple terms "vanish" sometime and now your decrease back in her life after she has moved on. If she tries to touch you after this, she became into never over you. never supply up on love:) this is seems such as you have real emotions for her!
2016-10-08 12:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is most important is YOU if your not happy ultimately your daughter wont be either move on! explain to your daughter things didnt work out between you two, but everything will be alright your not going anywhere.make a clean break thow or youll be sending confusing signals to your daughter
2006-07-31 06:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mind is already made up?
Do both then. Move on and ensure 100% as best you can that they keep in contact.
2006-07-31 06:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love the man and he treats you right and treats your daughter right then you should try to work things out with him. All my friends tried to tell em to move on but i tried to work things out with mine and we are more in love then ever. Don't give up on him work it out. For you, him, and your daughter.
2006-07-31 06:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by cheerbabe104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you still love him? if you dont love him there is no sense to keep it together. do what you think is best for you and your daughter.
2006-07-31 06:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋