i always feel awkward talking to her about me and like... puberty and telling her about things happening. what do i do?i have an otherwise good conection... butr when private problems arise i get all well... insecure.
2006-07-31 05:53:38 · 15 answers · asked by Wobble 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey its normal you dont have to feel insecure about talking to you mom.. after all she is you mother and who else could be a better person to talk to about stuff.. its ok for you to talk to her about puberty and your hormones.. i think it will be great for you because she is a female and she will be able to hgelp you there since you will be involved with gurls all your life it will be god for you. she may be the best person to talk to about these stuff.. so dont be shy trust me when i was going through that stage i went this same kind of difficulty and it bad because the faster you can communicate with her about your feelings the better you will feel and the more knowledge you will accquire....so hurry up and go talk to her trust me it will be good you wont regret
2006-07-31 06:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by subrina r 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Just know that your mom loves you no matter what! Whatever you tell her, she will love you anyway. Most moms want thier daughters to ask them anything, about sex, boys, or anything else in that topic because she is going to give you advice and lead you in the right direction. Trust her, she is trying to protect you and keep you well informed at the same time.
2006-07-31 05:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all girls go through this at some point.
and I'm sure your mom went through it with her mom too.
Start with some of the smaller issues and see how she reacts, if you like the way things are going..work up to some of the more serious stuff.
Good luck, and remember, she's probably just as nervous about it as you are
2006-07-31 05:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Flower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom you want to talk to her but tell her to listen and that you need her and to give you advice like a friend. Tell her that you want the best for you that's why you are coming to her to talk and not someone else.
2006-07-31 05:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Gloria (Madison) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecure? why'd you get insecure, in front of whom? it's your mom right ~ and you can share everything with her. and she'd really love to be able to give solutions to her daughter's problems. these issues are stuff that must be discussed with someone older, and your mum is just the person you should go to in these sorta times
2006-07-31 06:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Yellow ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will make your mom feel really good if you go to her with your questions and problems. I'm sure she will understand anything your going through and try to lead you in the right direction. good luck!
2006-07-31 05:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start off by saying something like..."this is a bit awkward but..."
some moms feel a bit awkward about their daughter's private problems but that passes
2006-07-31 05:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is embarrassing to talk to her, maybe you could write a in a notebook and have her answer it by writing a response. It could be a notebook for only you and your mom to read and write in. Hope this helps.
2006-07-31 06:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Fancy♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Moms love is UNconditional. She loves you for always. Dont worry. Just open up and talk to her when noone is around. It will bring you closer to her...
2006-07-31 05:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what your mom has gone thu this, like she doesn't know what is going on here, I'm sure she would be happy to talk to you, it will bring the two of you together, MORE!!!!
2006-07-31 05:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋