Yeah so...I've got boobs, 36C, and I'm proud of them...but I dont exactly flaunt them...so my boobs aren't asking for this crap! My bf annoys the hell outta me whenever he just randomly grabs them. He's sooner touch my boobs then any other part of me. It's upsetting...is it normal for a guy to CONSTANTLY be grabbing and, I mean, obsessing over his gf's boobs!? It's irritating! Oh I guess I could mention, his ex he was with for 2 years had n-o-t-h-i-n-g there for him to grab...and I mean nothing...so is the reason he's so enthralled with my breasts because he's never experienced them before? Why couldn't he be obsessed with kissing or something :( it's more romantic :( Are all men this ga-ga over two fleshy pieces of fat on a chest?
2006-07-31 05:53:09 · 12 answers · asked by chickingirl19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys like butts, some guys like legs, some guys like boobs... some like everything!. You just happend to have a boob guy. Men are excited by them because they don't have them. And we're a very boob-centric society. Look at most of the so-called sexy women in Hollywood... most of them have ample sized boobs. Their' butts can be as flat as a board, but if they have boobs the cameras are flashing. Society tells us that boobs are it! How many women are rushing to the plastic surgeon to get their calves enlarged or having silicone injected in their butts? Let your man enjoy your boobs. If you want to teach him how annoying, start grabbing his balls every chance you get. Although, most men might enjoy that...
2006-07-31 06:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, men are obsessed with breasts. Breasts look the way they do because they trigger a response deep within a man's brain - for some men more than others. In your boyfriend's case, it sounds like it's more than most.
Let him know you're uncomfortable, and that you feel objectified. But you've got to appreciate he's deeply turned on by your breasts. Talk with him and try to work out a middle ground.
2006-07-31 05:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a D-cup and I feel you. I always believed there is a time and place for everything. If he's constantly doing that to you and he knows you don't like it, then it turns into DISRESPECT. No, it's not a "man" thing to keep groping you like that. You may have to "punish" him in order for him to understand that what he's doing is not right.
2006-07-31 06:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May not be the best answer, but next time he grabs your boobs.....grab him where it counts. May lead to other activites, but if you do this repeatedly, he may eventually get the message, and might ask you why you're doin that, which may trigger discussion.....hummmmmm?
2006-07-31 06:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by gsmortgagedoctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just return the favor. Start grabbin his goods and workin them over like they need it... then stop. You'll drive the guy nuts.
2006-07-31 06:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by orange_tan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he wasn't properly weened from his mother! It may be comforting to him and take him back to his childhood!
2006-07-31 05:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dani California 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His reaction is perfectly natural, he loves your boobs. You should be flattered.
2006-07-31 05:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I like legs and butts better.
2006-07-31 06:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys will do that , he will grow up sweety !
2006-07-31 06:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would rather have him ignore you all together?
2006-07-31 06:00:34 · answer #10 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋