My boyfriend and i had an arguement yesterday, & i'm really upset because i told him that my friend told me not to trust him. so i told him about it & questioned him, 'what does this mean?' and he just kepy on saying "nothing happen."
i love him too much & i can't let him go, because i really do care about him a lot. it feels like things have fallen apart ever since that talk, (yesterday) . i feel hopeless, what should i do?
2006-07-31 05:37:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should ask your friend what she means by 'don't trust him' before you rush off to confront your boyfriend! You just jumped the gun! Go apologise to your boyfriend and learn to trust him!!
2006-07-31 05:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by singirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok from what ur saying it sounds like u talk 2 much and that u volunteer 2 much info when u shouldn't.. if ur friend tells u something like that, ur suppose to keep that confidential!! now he probably won't like ur friend which might in turn cause conflict between u and ur friend when she was just trying to look u out so u don't get hurt..
2nd "nothing happen", what does that mean.. tell ur bf to elaborate.. u never mentioned whether or not u trust him either.. do u?? if u do then why u questioning him?? if u don't why r u still w/him??
If u luv him 2 much then u and him definitely need space.. u can let him go, u just don't want to.. it's only been a day.. give him some space and see if he calls u, if he doesn't w/in the next 72 hrs then call him and u and him should talk it out and put all ur insecurities on the table if any.. but don't be a kiss a$$ since u feel like u can't let him go.. and see what he says..
if he doesn't want to be w/u anymore over something so petty than leave him cause obviously he didn't want to stay w/u to begin with..
Never put all ur eggs in one basket.. ur bf should not be ur life...
2006-07-31 12:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. It's pretty hard to do, but believe me...if he really does care for you and nothing happened, he'll be back chasing after you. If you had pretty good evidence that pointed to reasons not to trust him, then go on your gut instinct. If it tells you that you should really not trust him, then by all means don't. Whatever you do, if you don't trust him, then end the relationship and move on. A relationship is only as good as the foundation of trust that it's built on.
2006-07-31 12:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you can't go and tell him that your friend told you not to trust him. It just showed how much you trust him. Secondly, it could be that your friend is right and your bf is hiding something from you. Your friend might know something hence she made that statement about not trusting you bf. Maybe your boyfriend thought you " knew" something and hence he is avoiding you. If he is still avoiding you, I think its difficult for you two to patch back already. What good is a relationship when the other doesn't want to tell the truth.
2006-07-31 12:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so he said "nothing happened"...with whom is he talking about? Do you know of this person he's talking about? Well that is basically up to you if you trust him or not. Ask yourself this...he he ever given you a reason not to tust him? If you can answer that then I'd think of an example of when you couldn't trust him if there was ever a time...and if not, don't worry about it. Your friend just may be jealous of you two or she's assuming something she doesn't know. Talk to your boyfriend.
2006-07-31 12:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should talk that fri whc told u "he is not 2 trust". Ask 4 solution. i think they gives u the best result bcoz he gives u trouble.
2006-07-31 13:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you can do to a relationship is throw in what someone else said. If someone comes to you about your boyfriend, YOU confront him your way. Don't go to him with the he said she said stuff because honestly, nobody wants to hear that crap.
2006-07-31 12:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do love him you should trust him and not ask him such questions. But ya hes probably just playing with you mind, but you should apolize to him.
2006-07-31 12:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she really your bestfriend? if so then she might be right. Yes you are inlove but is he? You might want to talk tohim and her at the same time.
2006-07-31 12:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lucia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him once,but dont act like a stalker.if he feels the same way about u,hell come back,just wait.
2006-07-31 12:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by ♥BermudaShortzROCK♦ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋