me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. It will be a year on his birthday. We haved talked about marrige, living together,having kids(together)ect Well the other day he asked me to and i told him i had to think what should i do??
2006-07-31 05:32:26 · 25 answers · asked by candace s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You need to finish high school, go to college/tech school, and get your life figured out. Trust me, I would never date the guys I dated when I was 15, now (I am 24). You will change your mind. Live life, have fun, do good in school, hang out with your friends-don't rush things, there will be plenty of time to get serious later on. You're young, you have the rest of your lives together.
2006-07-31 05:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. You will change MUCH in the next 5-10 years. I was dating a guy for three years when I was your age... We talked about getting married too and all those things.
We went to college and we broke up. Not because we cheated or anything like that, but we just both changed a lot mentally and emotionally, which is something you cannot possibly experience at the tender age of 15 after being together for only one year.
Wait a few more years and if you are still in love and want to spend the rest of your lives together then go for it.
2006-07-31 12:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way no way no way. PLEASE dont do it. i know you think youre in love but why get married? if you guys love each other, then just stay together until after school AND college. then make a decision. that way you will be a hundred percent sure and you'll be financially stable and wont have to rely on anyone else. people change drastically until they are older and know who they are and exactly what they want. i got married at 17 and thought it was for sure true love! no one could tell me otherwise..we ended up getting divorced by 21 after the hardest 4 years of my life!!! we had 2 boys and he became an alcoholic and regretted marriage. he is still a deadbeat dad but thank god my children have their step dad now. im 29 and im just now gettin remarried. the worst part of getting married too young is losing those important teenage years. so sure, date, even maybe move in together but no reason to marry yet.
2006-07-31 18:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by tulips♥77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, yes, it is too young. You haven't even been together for a year yet! Tell him to ask you again when you graduate from high school and if you're still together then maybe you can get engaged and then married after college. I know it sounds like fun planning a future together and thinking about your wedding and having kids, but you just have to be patient and when it happens it will be worth the wait!
2006-07-31 12:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Reverie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is way too young. It's nice that he cares about you that way, but if he really loves you he will wait forever if it is necessary. Finish school. Get a real job. Live life, enjoy it. You can still do all these things with him. Once you both are ready, money wise and mature enough, if you guys still together obviously go for it and enjoy a good marriage life, but until then don't do it. Both of you could end up hating each other in the long run.
2006-07-31 12:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by Brokengirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to think about marriege. I made a BIG mistake once at the age of 14 now Im 29 and mannnnn do I regret it. Have fun enjoy life and if the does not want to wait then let him go......
2006-07-31 15:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Medical Assistant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you will regret it!!! You have so much of your life to live and to experience! You have the rest of school to worry about which is alot of responsibility as it is. Now if you two love each other and truly think that he's the one, then what's the rush? You have the rest of your life to be together.
2006-07-31 14:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by tenieweny00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!! You are still a kid and I don't think that you are really ready to get married. Take your time and make sure that this is what YOU want. Don't rush into anything. Good luck.
2006-07-31 14:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by power of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre too young to be dating let alone married....dating age 16, married...no sooner than mid 20's Why do kids want to grow up so fast?
2006-07-31 13:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by bart26262 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to get married I just got married and I am 21. It's even hard on me and my hubby. What are ya'll going to do about food, money, BILLS???? If he really loves you, he will wait.
2006-07-31 13:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by kelynn1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋