I am seeing a guy who is 26, i am 18. I love him and would love to settle with him but have a nagging feeling i should stay single and have fun. Also there is a guy my age who i really like which makes me feel like i should stay single. But i dont want to lose my boyfriend. What do i do?
2006-07-31 05:32:06 · 12 answers · asked by littledear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only you can answer this question. you are standing at a cross roads and both directions lead to your destiny. which you chose doesn't matter but choose you must. don't leave one person for another unless it's yourself
2006-07-31 05:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by minerva 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
18 is probably a bit young to decide who you want to be with for the rest of your life, especially if you havent been with your boyfriend that long. Why not stay with him and see what happens instead of deciding now whether to settle down or not?
Whatever you do, don't cheat on your boyfriend, if you're not prepared to be faithful to one person then don't stay in a relationship.
However old you get, you'll always find other people attractive, but that doesn't mean you have to do anything about it. Why not stay with your boyfriend and still have fun??
2006-07-31 12:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely not ready to marry and settle down with your boyfriend. You should tell him that you feel too young to settle down yet, and then go and have fun. You sound as if you want to have your cake and eat it - sorry this is not possible. You obviously have doubts about marriage and even that your boyfriend is the right one for you. If you marry him now you may well regret it later.
2006-07-31 12:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle!! Seriously, don't do it! I wish I hadn't done it all so young. I met my soon to be ex husband at 19, married at 22 and had my daughter at 23. At 18 you should be going out and enjoying yourself being free to do as you wish, not having to wash some blokes socks. So really, don't do it. Stay together by all means but don't get too serious too young, you really don't need the hassle of looking after some bloke at 18.
2006-07-31 12:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by the woo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt make sense girl....... You want to settle down with your current boyfriend, but you really like this other guy.
If you like someone else aswell as your boyfriend... then your not in any position to settle down... simple...
Your question has pretty much given you the answer!!!!
If I was with a girlfriend that I really liked, but also liked some other girl(s), then something is wrong. If I was to settle down with my girl, then that measn I have no interest in anyone else... but her.
Your still young girl...
2006-07-31 13:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. How do you feel about your boyfriend?
I think 18 is too young, to be thinking about settling down. Good luck.
2006-07-31 12:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aah, the old "cake and eat it" dilemma. Only you can make that decision.
Personally I'd stay single and have fun. Life's too short.
2006-07-31 12:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. If you are curious about anyone romantically besides the man your are seeing, you aren't ready to settle down.
2006-07-31 12:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask the question then you have doubt.your only young go out and live your life.I'm 27 and still single and i love being single.its lots of fun,but you can be in a relationship and have fun.good luck!
2006-07-31 13:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your asking this question your obviously not ready to settle down and don't feel pressured into doing so, you'll only resent him.
2006-07-31 12:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i would enjoy yourself while your young. otherwise youll wake up when your 30 and think 'i wish id done that while i was younger'. I know that itll hurt being apart from your boyfriend for a while but once you get out and start enjoying yourself, youll collect memories rather than regrets.
2006-08-01 05:15:03 · answer #11 · answered by Miss_Mort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋