I am a 25 year old woman who loves older man! How old is TOO old for me? What do u guys think?

Answer 1

That is a hard question to answer, but here is my take on the question. I am 48 years old, you are 25. You are attracted to older guys and I don't know an older guy that doesn't find younger women attractive, not to mention the ego boost to be with one. But, you have to consider that although you are attracted to older men, time does go forward. If you were with a 48 year old man right now, that would be great RIGHT NOW, but how bout 20 years down the road? You'd only be 45 and the guy would be 68 by then. There comes a point where you have to weigh the age with what you can settle for down the road. I would say, don't go for anyone more than 10 years older than you if you plan on making it a lasting relationship. If it's just for the moment or short term, then hey....go for it! 10 years is not bad.....down the road he would be 78 and you would be 68.....that's still comparable in terms of compatibility. Just my opinion. Good question.

Answer 2

It didn't matter what age! It matter how much you guys love eachother like soulmate. Some people care about age, some don't. Just follow your heart and knowing if that person feels the same way.

I am 35 years old and If my wife is 60 years old who cares I love person from inside. I know you do the same thing. I know life will be short for older guy but knowing that you will not want to remarried to someone.

I am 35 my wife is 34 and Iknow that if she passed away she knows that I still stay married to this woman for a long long time until my time is up. My marriage means forever no matter how long, second, mins, hrs, days, months, years, millions years. I will always be with her. She felt the same way.

Hope this helps.

Answer 3

hi

Age is a number yes true, agreeable.

Love is from the heart.

I would say not more than 4 years cos every 4 years already feels like a generation gap !
Think about it!

The wavelengths, the chemistry, the sexual bit all interplay to make a relationship work.

I suppose true love endures over time to make a relationship last long but in the end it's all about compatiblity and true love.

Just give it a shot ! If it works and you are happy then alright!

If not, you know what age men work for you and what not!

If you never try, you never know!

All the best!

Cheers!

Answer 4

I went out with a guy 6 years older than me. I was 20 at the time and he was 26. We went out for 4 years. Age don't necessarily matter, but the issue comes up.

Answer 5

26

Answer 6

Agism is just another form of prejudice. You would never say "I like black men, but how dark is too dark for me?"

One of the best relationships that I know of is my 22 year old friend in Paris who is living with an 86 year old. They have a wonderful, loving, supportive relationship. What matters is love and the shared values that make a relationship work.

Answer 7

It all depends on what type of personality you each have. I am 26 and my boyfriend is 38, we are great together and have the same goals, etc.
When you date someone older though, some of the problems you can face are a difference in interests, things in common, circle of friends (all mine are 26, all his are in their late 30's-40's, my friends still like to get together and go out where as his friends barely go out because they are married and have families), career wise, plans for the future (my boyfriend wants to start a family very soon because of his age).
So, those are some things you have to decide on and really take a closer look to see if it can really work out.

Answer 8

Around 40 should be good enough although this might seems to be a little old as your present age BUT, when you grow older the difference is not too much!

Answer 9

35

Answer 10

I wouldn't know I am 32 and my husband is 48. As long as you are both legal. I presume that it is okay. Love has no number. If youre 25 and he is 70, that is a bit much.