how lond should u wait before doin it
2006-07-31 05:15:59 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
til u BOTH say I DO!!
2006-07-31 05:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound like a gold digger here, but would you trust this man to help in the time of need? Or would he run or sleep with you in return for him helping? Find out about people before becoming intimate with theme. Not just B/F but humans in general, we become so quick to call people our friends and sleep with men we have no idea about, and then were on Yahoo talking how wrong we've been done.
It's your right to learn as much as you can about someone and if they don't want you too know about them then let it go.
2006-07-31 05:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never has sex before, wait untill you are in a firm relationship, very firm! In the end it will make a better person of you. If you are young I would sugest you wait untill your 18-21yrs old. I know that it sounds like something out of a book but it is true.
2006-07-31 05:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Wild Bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy, how much you like him, and how comfortable you are with him. I usually try to wait around 2-3 weeks, by then we've been on a quite few dates and I've probably already seen his place. As a rule I never sleep with a guy before I've been to his house, just to make sure he isn't hiding any skeletons in the closets. If you get my meaning.
2006-07-31 05:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by cgc17788 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no straight answer for this question. You have to ask yourself, 1. Are you feeling pressured by your b.f. to have sex. 2. Have you established trust in your relationship. 3. Do you feel comfortable having sex at this point in the relationship. Once you answer these questions then you will know if the time is right or not.
2006-07-31 05:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Johnsmatrix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About 2 shakes
2006-07-31 05:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by bobemac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are pretty young. I really suggest waiting as long as you can. If you do sleep with him, make sure you been on the pill for 3 months, he uses protection and you both get tested for STDs. You have to be safe!
2006-07-31 05:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's up wit you? All you want to do is try to be cool and everything. But what happens when your pregnant. What happens when you get HIV, what happens when he leaves you alone with your child? Not until you get married. Having *** (it's just not right to say it until your married) is making a covenant that you love him and he loves you. That neither of you will ever leave each other and that now you both share everything. Everything that's yours is his and everything that's his is yours. He owns you and you own him. You could get STDs. There is cure for that, you want to know what it's called? Pants!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do NOT do it! Wait!
2006-08-01 12:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by rvn.lwrnc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months
2006-07-31 05:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 seconds
2006-07-31 05:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait about 8 months to a year or if u think its the right time do but do NOT let ur man pressure u into it its ur decision
2006-07-31 05:18:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋