I HAVE A BF BUT HE S NOT GOOD LOOKING IN COMPARISION TO ME BUT I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. BUT HE ALWAYS LIE TO ME.WHEN HE PRUPOSED ME 1 YEAR BEFORE HE HAS GIVEN ME ALL HAPINESS BUT NOW HE DONT LIKE TO MEET ME,HE DONT LIKE TO TALK TO ME AS WELL.HE SAYS THAT TALKING EVERYDAY IS NOT COMPULSION.WHEN I CAME TO KNW DAT HE LIE TO ME THEN HE NEVER FEEL GUILTY ABOUT IT. WHAT SHOULD I DO.I HAVE TRIED ALMOST EVERYTHING I SAID HIM I DNT WAN ANY RELATION HE SAYS THAT "I LOVE U AND I WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU".I KNW HE DNT HAVE ANY OTHER GF BUT HE DOESNT TAKE CARE OF ME AS WELL.I ALWAYS BE UPSET BCOZ OF HIM.I CANT LEAVE HIM ALSO.I TRIED TO MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND MY FEELINGS BUT HE NEVER UNDERSTAND.HE NEVER TAKE CARE OF ME .WHAT SHOULD I DO??? PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
2006-07-31 05:05:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you should leave him and find someone who treats you like a princess, every women should be treated like a princess. I understand that you might love him but you have to think about whats best for you. There are alot of great guys out there and thers no reason to waste your time with someone who dont take good care of you. If he wont let you leave him then just get a new bf who can protect you from him.
A real man would know what his girl wants and make it happen, he should listen to your problems and make you feel good.
Leave that loser and find your knight in shining armor
PS>> i put alot of thought into this answer so can i have the 10 points please? I hope my advice helps
2006-07-31 05:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by rockandroll5556 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the way it is...i'm in the same situation with my boy...he was sooooooooooo sweet back then when we started meeting but after a year everything's changed...we used to talk on the phone i can tell more that 8 or 9 hours but now we just say good morning and goodnight that's all...i really was hurt at first but now i'm gettin along well with everything...just don't let you expectations so high and try to get used with how the things are.
now i don't expect him to call me and he doesn't though but i really wouldn mind anymore...i had a real wild time 2 or 3 months back but now i'm doin pretty well...i amuse myself with lots of thingz...he loves me and i love him so much and we're not planning to give up but if you expect those beautiful old days came back again NO WAY
goodluck
2006-07-31 05:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he ignores you eh? Give him a piece of your mind. Get mad at his face and be frank. Give him the cold shoulders after that. If he doesn't care about you when you poured out your feelings and anguish to him consider hurling some things at him to priove your point. the thing is, you're too NICE. You need to jolt him with electricity and wake the slacker unromantic freak that he is. If that doesn't work jump and save yourself from the sinking ship.
2006-07-31 05:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was raised to always take care of myself first and also to believe that I did not need a man to "take care" of me especially if we are just dating. If we were married then it's a partnership and we take care of each other. You need to evaluate the reason for your unhappiness whatever it is. Address the issue and try to correct it. if you can't you can definitely walk away feeling as if you tried and maybe he's not "the one"
2006-07-31 05:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by donise225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear upset baby,
Its hard 2 understand your prob but i think i got it. I feel u must wait for some time and try to understand his behaviour from all angles. then according to your observations talk to him frankly. if he refuses or is too rude it is a signal for you to (sorry to say) BACK UP! HE IS NOT WORTH YOUR ATTENTION AND LOVE!!!
But if he is really worth you or has some good feelings for you he might be good enough and talk to you properly. HOPE THIS HELPS U.
BEST OF LUCK!!!
2006-07-31 05:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now that he has u he is doing the famous mistake of taking you for granted, most guys do that, all u need to show is that u dont need him just show it. u can be and are more happy with out him. and u are doing him a favour by being his gf, dont let ur selfrespect go away, and dont let ur morale go down, do stuff that will keep u busy and occupied.. it will work trust me
2006-07-31 05:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i guess u shud end this relationship because that guy dosent deserve ur love. he always lies to u, never takes care of u. its simple - he is bored of u. and i suggest u not to cry wen u break up wid him cos he dosent deserve ur tears too.
or u cud just simply go up to him in a serious manner and ask him directly,but sweetly wats his problem. and mayb he will tell u.
all the best.
2006-07-31 05:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a Bigger Boyfriend, I'm 6 foot 5 230lbs he wont bother you anymore :0)
2006-07-31 05:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that it is over i am tired of what you have done to me you probably don't deserve to be treated like that any way find a new person that actually cares.
2006-07-31 05:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from wot you have written the things that stood out most is that you think he lies to u...now r u absolutely sure about it & if u r then.....listen trust & honesty is d basis of any relationship......just saying i love ui doesnt mean anything...does ur heart say he loves u?.........this is wot i think u should do..........take a break frm him for sometime....be by urself....see wot ur feeling,needs,desires r about a romantic relation.....then look at ur relationship with ur bf & honestly think if this is wot u r absolutely willing to commit urself to for d rest of ur life......if yes then do & give much love to him then u ever expect for urself.......if not then u just have to move on to someone who truly loves,respects,honours u& is commited to love u
2006-07-31 05:28:21 · answer #10 · answered by tianchifuerza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋