Why do girls go after the assholes and not the nice goodloking guys that would treat them right? Girls always say they want a good guy to have fun with, yet they always go after a guy that treats them badly. Girls a very confusing..
2006-07-31 05:05:34 · 7 answers · asked by Justlookin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i know exactly what you mean because i am stuck on an asshole but i mean guys go after the sluts and girls like that and not the real nice girls that acutually like you so guys are really confusing........
2006-07-31 05:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by LiL RiZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I consider myself a very rational kind of person, and although I know that a good man is better than a bad one, I can't help but being attracted to the bad one. I was lucky; I got a good one who looked bad at first. I think the reasoning is, is that most women are insecure, thus they like a man who is bold and just wants to take charge as well as show them things that they didn't know was there. Women are always curious. Women don't like men who are mean or have a filthy mouth, unless in bed possibly, just a man with the presence of tough, strong, know how to give a woman something she doesn't even know she wants, power. That's the best way I can describe it. Girls have been raised to be proper and blah, blah, blah... but inside they wish that they had an opportunity, some kind of excuse, or just that they got so carried away that it happen chance. A man has that kind of power and that is what we want, it's a nice cover, because then we are not bad, we are with a man, and society sees that as okay. A bad man may not do anything bad in particular, just makes a woman feel that they are.
Here I'll give you some insight, my husband, then boyfriend, drove a Harley. My parents were firm Christians and wanted no part of me riding a bike, safety issues. I got on that bike every chance I could, it was naughty, but it was still decent in people’s eyes, He gave me the opportunity to feel.... excited, naughty..... But it wasn't for things that were strange. Women just want to escape into a fantasy, look at all the fairy tales we are always being feed as children, then as adults in romance novels. Good guys are great, but that is when we want to settle down and get married and start a family. My advice it to be a bit wild, then when you get married you won't have to keep being that way, you still need some excitement, but things always developed to a more nurturing nature (children, household responsibilities....). On the opposite, men have their fairy tales too, they are called beach babes.
2006-07-31 13:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are the nice guys hiding?
2006-07-31 12:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes they are at that stage when they like the bad-boys. It's totally stupid if you ask me.
2006-07-31 12:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women/gurlz r like that......i like good-lookin nice guys..no assholes
2006-07-31 12:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Patty's Tat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some girls are just stupid, and like to be treated like ****.
2006-07-31 12:11:47 · answer #6 · answered by LADY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not running after no asshole
2006-07-31 12:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by beautyprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋