It seems that about 9/10 of women (correct me if I'm wrong) like all of the above, but also require some "bite" from their man to remain attracted to him. They like it when he is (in the right amount) unpredictable, argues/isn't agreeable by default, takes control, isn't always there for her, etc.
I'm a typical, incurable "nice guy," and I have absolutely no interest in becoming less agreeable, less there for my woman, or less dependable. I could possibly become a little less predictable (surprize her more, not play video games/watch TV all the time) and a little more "take charge."
Is my fear that it's actually more (just as) important to be the right amount of a jerk as it is to be good looking, funny, intelligent, and good with money a reasonable fear?
2006-07-31
05:04:46
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