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It seems that about 9/10 of women (correct me if I'm wrong) like all of the above, but also require some "bite" from their man to remain attracted to him. They like it when he is (in the right amount) unpredictable, argues/isn't agreeable by default, takes control, isn't always there for her, etc.
I'm a typical, incurable "nice guy," and I have absolutely no interest in becoming less agreeable, less there for my woman, or less dependable. I could possibly become a little less predictable (surprize her more, not play video games/watch TV all the time) and a little more "take charge."
Is my fear that it's actually more (just as) important to be the right amount of a jerk as it is to be good looking, funny, intelligent, and good with money a reasonable fear?

2006-07-31 05:04:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I have been using this board for quite some time. seems like there are tons of nice guys asking the question "I am too nice and no ones wants me." I have got a question, why don't I see those nice guys walking on the street??
I like nice, intelligent men. I hate jerk. i will kick a guy out of my apartment if he is not there for me or not dependentable. and god, you are not typical if you are nice. whatever.
ok, here is the more "take charge" thing. I personally connect dependable and "take charge" thing together. I don't need my man to take charge all the time. but it would be nice that when I am really stress out, and I can't make good decision, I trust my man to be able to make a good decision for me.
To answer your question of women want some "bite" from their men. yea, i do require some bite from my man. i don't want to be with a wuss. but at the same time, i don't want my man to be unpredictable, isn't agreeable by default, takes control all the time. i think a confident man can also be a nice man. oh well, and i am still waiting for him.

2006-07-31 05:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by musi 3 · 0 0

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