ok this is going to sound crazy and i don't know why i am putting up with it but my dad drinks all the time well he gets drunk every night... he got busted for DUI well umm it didn't teach him anything.. my dad is the biggest lier ever!!! i love my dad just i hate when he drinking i have no one to talk too about this i need someone to talk to yes but no one around me understands at all... if someone out there is going threw this email me at lil_carebear42069@yahoo.com or add me to your list we can talk... i am so scared to death.. what should i do with my dad promblem?? i don't want to leave the house because of my mom i love my mom she my best friend!! what should i really do help me please!!!
2006-07-31 05:03:15 · 10 answers · asked by lil_carebear42069 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey kiddo, I'm so sorry about the situation you are in. No one should have to deal with this kind of pain. But please take care of yourself and do NOT post your e-mail like you did out in the open on the internet (delete it now). There is help for you. Go to:
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/english.html
Alcoholism is a terrible disease. You have to take care of yourself first and foremost. Let your mom be the grown-up and you should concentrate on your education and a career path. Hang in there. Again, delete your e-mail address and don't respond to strangers privately that way. Helps is a click away at:
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/english.html
2006-07-31 05:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly what your are describing is a alcoholic.They first have to realize that they have a problem. Try and get your dadt to attend AA meetings. And for you go to al-anon meetings they really Help families and friends of alcoholics recover from the effects of living with the problem drinking of a relative or friend.Go to a meeting with your mom. You will glad you did.
2006-07-31 05:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must agree with 1+1=11. Take action now b4 the situation gets worse....Alternatively see a counsellor for advice or a best friend or a church pastor / priest you can confide in...but better solve it at family level first unless all else fails.
2006-07-31 05:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-28 15:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a national association for children of alcoholics. Check out the website below. Good luck, honey.
2006-07-31 05:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsinglemom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen this is a really big issue!!...U need to go to Ur mom tell her he's got to go to AA meeting to get his drinking under control.tell her it'sdestoying U when U see him like that. Im sur she understand, if not tell Ur guidence counsoler at school whatever u fell cofortable w/. this is just my Opinion U don't have to listen though I recomend it strongly!
2006-07-31 05:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all nobody is going to change unless they want to. Somehow somebody will have to get through to him to make him want to change. He needs to see how it is affecting the family and want to get help.He needs to get help because it is already out of control and he must be addicted to alcohol.
2006-07-31 05:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by suzanne p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey carebare i really feel for you but please don't put your e-mail out there like that you think you have problems know wait to the creeps start im you please delete your info and never ever give out or ask for someone to e-mail you personally it's just crazy take care of yourself and please take your info off and just get answers this way please i don't want you to get hurt and if someone does I'm you please ignore I'm telling you read the papers and maybe you will understand good luck and may god bless you and your mother
2006-07-31 07:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe when he isnt drunk u should sit him down and talk to him calmly about his drinking problem and tell him how it is affecting u and that u luv him.
2006-07-31 05:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom, call a cop, talk to a teacher, etc, etc.
2006-07-31 05:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋