why is it that i hate my father so much i mean lyk he hasnt raped me or anything i just hate him i cant even hear his voice cuz i feel lyk i need to yell at him
2006-07-31 04:58:38 · 15 answers · asked by basketgirlteen13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you probably hate yo dad so much cuz he haven't been there like he should have in da past or future or he may have done something so bad dat really hurt u n u can't forgive him. but wat evea it is u really shouldn't have so much hatred towards him cuz 1 he did help make u n no matter wat a father do he is still yo father cuz no one can ever take da place of yo father. maybe u should sit down n talk 2 him one on one maybe u will feel different.but girl father's make mistakes cuz no one is perfect maybe he made a mistake or 2 mistakes or even more but u should still have love fa him cuz he's yo father n he's not goin no where. find a way 2 love him n talk back 2 him. cuz a father gon b a father regardless wat da condition is i,m pretty sure yo dad love u 2 death so y can't u feel da same? its not dat hard. life is too short fa hatred especially towards yo father wat if something happen 2 him won't u feel a lil guilty fa knowin dat u was never close 2 him n u never took da change 2 make it rite. u will have 2 b there fa him cuz u're his child i know deep down inside u love yo father u jus need 2 open up more n give him a chance cuz i,m pretty sure he deserve it, u're his child n rather or not he act like he love n care fa u or not u should still show n give him yo love. good luck!!!!!!!
2006-07-31 05:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by chicagodiva08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends. How old are U? U may be going thru that rebellion stage we've all gone thru. U sound slightly angry towards him. Ppl don't seem to understand that hate is a strong word. Perhaps U should write down your feelings in reguards to him (in the morning). Then later in the day (before you go to bed) re-read them. This can help U understand UR self more. Maybe, one day, you can sit down and speak to him on your feelings. You may even find that you don't hate him after all. Which would be the best point of all!
2006-07-31 05:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by Gremlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's getting out of hand is the senseless Obama supporters nonetheless caught within the mentality of "Obama is black.. it is old.. he can do no flawed!" The guy has been a entire and complete crisis for this nation. The economic climate is NOT making improvements to, the price range deficit is NOT making improvements to, overseas family members are NOT making improvements to. He is a failure.. and he looks to be thrilled with the harm he is doing to this nation. And FYI ACORN's voter fraud and the SEIU thugs attacking Americans bold to talk in opposition to Obamacare ARE crook acts.
2016-08-28 15:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by stufflebeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because the devil comes to steal, kill and destroy. He wants to steal your love and joy, kill your spirit and destroy your relationship with your family. God ordained families and he loves it. He himself created us so that he would have a family. The devil wants to corrupt anything that God made good. He wants to divide families because he knows that if we get together we can be a great force to contend with. Think of the talents and gifts in your family and what you all can do to create a business or anything else.
You just need to pray to God that he would come into your life and forgive you for your sins (Romans 10:9). Also, that he would give you a heart filled with love and compassion so that you can love your dad and everyone else. All hatred does is deteriorate the body, the spirit and bring fear into your life. You are a purposed being - don't allow anything to stop you.
2006-07-31 05:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by fsalley_sc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're feelings are generally normal for a young person to feel at times. Someday, you'll forgive him for his idiosyncracies and mistakes. Someday you may actually miss him and regret alot of choices you may make to push him away -but that could take 15-20 years. I'll bet that way deep down inside you actually love the guy even though you definitely don't feel that way right now.
2006-07-31 05:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably an adolescent going through that shift from your parents being the center of your world to your friends being the center of your world. Hate is a very strong word, though. Having lost my father when I was barely 16, I wish he'd been around to "annoy" me.
2006-07-31 05:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kiki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a spoiled brat who can't even show her father the respect the man deserves for raising you and supporting you.
2006-07-31 05:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why you hate him so much,have you ever tried talking to him about how you feel.?
2006-07-31 05:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like that too but you just need some time to cool off and then you'll be fine again>
2006-07-31 05:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you are angry at him for, you need to forgive him or the anger will turn into depression.
2006-07-31 05:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋