I met an attractive girl at a club this weekend. As I was walking by she smiled several times at me and caught my attention. Knowing she was pleased with my appearance I approached her with confidence. We danced all night very closely as well. She had no problem being in my arms or anything. After having a great time on the dance floor we only stopped to have a drink and talk a little. We engaged in simple conversation about each other at that time I asked her to join me for dinner and her response was not as I expected. She told me that she does not “think it would be a good idea.” Why would she spend the night with me having fun only to turn me down when I asked for her number? I did see her talking to another guy on my way out the club she seemed to be arguing with him. Was I a pawn in a chess game that I did not know I was being played?
2006-07-31 04:56:41 · 31 answers · asked by omenus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes a girl might be mad at her boyfriend, and just want to have a night of fun. Maybe she realized what she was doing when you asked her out. It's better that you found out now, than going out with her later and being in the middle of a bigger problem.
2006-07-31 05:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by contra_z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have been stressed and needed to have a good time. You had a good time also therefore you are even. She does not want to go farther than dancing because she is committed to some one else. She was fair both of you benefitted from the night. Would you have rather she led you on and took up your dinner offer then she tells you that she is with someone else? Then you would have been played. These things happen in life, just get over it.
2006-07-31 05:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by joebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the scenario that you saw earlier (she is into an argument with a guy) was a lovers quarrel and to make her night better she stayed a while longer and have fun. Sort of you became part of her "fun". She doesn't want to give her number or go for a dinner because she doesn't want to complicate things. Women think that when a guy ask for her number or ask her to go out for dinner the guy is interested with her. If she is in a relationship, she doesn't want to complicate things by going out with you or giving her number to you. I guess the bar is not a great place to find a partner.
2006-07-31 05:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Mister Pawn!
2006-07-31 04:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is in a relationship and was at the club cause she was having probs maybe u did a good deed u helped her get her mind off her home problems and gave her someone to talk to if she did not wanna go any further than that night apparently there is someone else and u helped her in her lonesome time she was probaly only wanting someone for that night only
2006-07-31 05:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose i ought to describe, yet i'm no longer able to. From the exterior it appears like 2 issues - confusion and immaturity - except she's gay or bi. and are not getting me incorrect, i discover a lot women persons alluring, yet kissing and so on. - this is for somebody particular, and in my case, it fairly is a guy. If a woman isn't bi (or gay, duh!) and is doing that - it frequently is for interest, distinctly from the different intercourse. this is how I see it, nicely suited or incorrect. EDIT - In different cultures you do kiss to greet close buddies and kinfolk. adult males do it too. In France two times except you reside in Paris, that's 3, in Serbia, i think is thrice besides, in Croatia, same element... in Romanian two times - even though it fairly is often on the cheek and you never use tongue. there's a distinction between an affectionate kiss and saliva replace.
2016-10-08 12:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:( What a sin.
Yep, you fell for it, hook line and sinker. What a B**** she is.
You sound like a decent guy and if only there were MORE of you at clubs. Don't despair, you got the right strategy for getting the girl, you just need to find one who is deserving of you! I can't believe there are actually guys at a club, who want more than sex!
2006-07-31 05:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by chickingirl19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was just using you to make the other guy jealous. She just want to get back at him and have a little fun doing it. You should just move on and find someone else. Good luck.
2006-07-31 05:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe either that or she just wanted to have a good time dancing and wasn't looking for anyone that night. Forget about it and move on.
2006-07-31 05:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was just feeling the situation out. She needs to really be sure. It could be she's had a bad experience. She just wants to take things slow.
2006-07-31 05:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by tooshy46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋