I’m in a wonderful relationship. I know that many relationships don’t always work out though. What could I do to get the best out of my relationship? Also what could I do to get good things out of this relationship that can benefit my life, even if the relationship may not work out in the end?
2006-07-31 04:31:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep asking yourself those questions. The answers you provide are what give you a wonderful relationship and a life filled with benefits.
Want a real miracle? Ask those questions of the one you're in the relationship with. The answers the two of you will come up with together will give you things you could NEVER have imagined on your own. That's the whole point to having relationships with other people. (Well, that and the sex. :-)
The trick is, don't ask these questions with a sense of exasperation or resignation -- ask them the same way you've asked us, as part of a wonderful relationship that you want to get the best from.
...Or, and here's a very subtle change in language, but it's going to turn your relationship in a new and powerful direction: Ask these questions as part of a wonderful relationship that you want the best FOR.
Because a really great relationship is like an orchard. If you stumble across one and walk through picking fruit from the trees and talking about how wonderful it is, you'll always have the memory of that orchard you visited once. But if you make sure the trees get enough water, prune the branches that aren't bearing fruit, keep pulling out the weeds between the rows, and take care of the soil in which the trees are growing, you'll continue to have fruit that will feed you, your family, and your community for generations to come.
2006-07-31 04:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and enjoy the good times.Try to learn from whats not working out if there not.Learn from the mistakes so if and only if you both separate, you can be a better man for the next in line.good luck.
2006-07-31 11:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-31 11:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by tomboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, you can never measure benifits out of an intimate relationship. but to be specific, you can expand your connection base once you be with someone for a long time......try to think positive....you will find that life is full of benifits....like...wonderful moments!
2006-07-31 11:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you don't want it to work already.but you what to get all you can get from them. move on and get the things you what yourself.a relationship will work if and only you both work at it.
2006-07-31 11:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep remembering - its more pleasant to give than to receive.
2006-07-31 11:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by chp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋