i am having sex problems?

Question

when my bf eats me out i can get off no problem as long as my hips r in the right position. i have NEVER had an orgasm while having sex. how do i do that any tips???? i dont wanna hear that it may not be my time or i might not get it for a while. i want tips NOW in how to have an orgasm DURING SEX

i dont know really where my gspot is while im havin sex where is he supposed to hit and rub

Answer 1

i believe oral sex is also sex. many women only have an orgasm during clitoral stimulation. you might try having your orgasm first then go for intercourse. try clitoral stimulution the same time. one choice is try a vibrator while having intercourse too. the g spot isnt always easy either, it is in the anteriour area of your vagina, you might try finding it first with your finger, about the penetration to your knuckle, using a come hither type motion. if you find that is a good sensation that gets you there, try having him enter you doggy style which has a higher chance of g spot stimulation. you also might try: woman on top which allows for you to control the stimulation of what feels best.

Answer 2

Hey when in the missionary position try to move along with him and if both are moving at the same time ijn a great frow you might be able to rub the right spot like that and be able to ***, thats exactly how it works for me and if that doesn't do it well then have no fear and masturbate a bit during the act, shoot he'll get a thrill and you'll definelty be enjoying that!!!

Answer 3

There's no way of answering why you don't orgasm with sex,but why don't you try different positions that might help out.

Answer 4

It can take practice, for both of you, to get to where you can have orgasms during intercourse. Fortunately the practice is fun. :-)

The thing I've learned is that even if you are capable of having satisfying orgasms during masturbation or oral sex, it can take a while for you to "learn" to have an orgasm during intercourse. Your body is used to climaxing from the stimulation of a specific set of nerves, and during vaginal intercourse you're stimulating a DIFFERENT set of nerves. You need to make the transition from one set to the other by stimulating BOTH sets of nerves -- those on the outside of your genitals (the clitoris, specifically) and those on the inside.

Here's how you start: Have your boyfriend bring you ALMOST to the point of orgasm orally -- right to the point where you think that in another thirty seconds or so you're going to finish. Then, when you are about to go over the edge, have him lie on his back; then you climb on top, put him inside you, and move on him in the ways that you enjoy the most.

Make sense? The keys are to get really close to orgasm, then put yourself in a position where you are in charge of the movement. YOU put him where you want him, YOU do the moving and rubbing and everything. You SHOULD have an orgasm within a minute or so. (If he hasn't finished yet, you may want to switch back to a more familiar position, because you may be TOO sensitive after your own orgasm.)

When you can reliably climax that way, then try the next step, which is to have him get you to the same almost-there point, but then begin intercourse with him on top. By now you'll know how to hold your hips to get him to the right spots, but more important, your nerves will have "learned" how to make you come during intercourse.

Many women don't have orgasms from intercourse alone; most need warmup of some kind before "the main event." And some women can only have orgasms in certain positions; my wife, for example, can't have an orgasm from rear-entry sex (but she finds it very exciting because I like it so much that I get very, ah, vigorous...)

...Another thing to try when you're teaching your nerves how to have an orgasm during intercourse: Lie on your back and have your boyfriend enter you, but then have him shift so he's up on his knees, with his body vertical. Then try using a vibrator on your clitoris. (There are sex toys that basically turn his penis into a vibrator, too -- look up "vibrating ring" on your favorite sex-toy site, or look at http://www.xandria.com if you don't already have a preferred site.)

One final suggestion: have him get you close with oral sex and foreplay, then start in the "missionary position" with your legs apart. Then, "swap" your legs -- that is, you put your legs down and have him put his legs over yours. He can hook his ankles behind your knees to help keep your legs apart while he's sliding in and out. We find that this position is VERY good for both of us, and you may too; it tilts your hips down a bit so that he stimulates the upper edge of your vagina, including your clitoris, more as he pumps in and out. And he should enjoy it as well -- the sensation of entry is different, but it's a very satisfying position for him to climax. (Well, it is for ME, anyway... :-)

Answer 5

Most wemon orgasm from clitoral stimulation rather than vaginal, meaning it's the clit that gets you of NOT your vagina. if you want to orgasm while your having sex find a way to stimulate your clitoris during sex, such as rubbing it yourself, finding a position that affects it, etc.

Answer 6

Just Think about sucking his cock and what if feels like in your mouth. pretty soon you will hit that orgasm

Answer 7

contact me and I'll tell you a few positions that seem to work pretty well, but only if you 18+!!

Answer 8

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Answer 9

find a man with a longer tool

Answer 10

get on your hands and knees take it doggy style and let him hit your g spot hard